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UPDATE: we broke up.. when i was in bed with her i was kissing her, touching her etc telling her lets make love etc etc etc. and shes like no im tired blah blah, it was like that for 10 min i think towards the end she kinda got disgusted and was mad but didn't show it..anyways we wake up and shes mad as hell and is like its over.. and im like what.. and shes like you acted like a drunk horny man it made me sick like knowing this is who i am dating.. anyways now that i look at it im pretty hurt from it because i did act like that and it was wrong, im trying to not let my ego get the best of me and maybe say something?
You think she broke up with you because you were 'pushing it' this one time?
You think it's a coincidence that she's always 'tired' when it's time to have sex?
You think it's a coincidence that she gradually stopped pleasing you at all?
. . .
The problem lies way deeper than that. Perhaps you AFC'd yourself out of the relationship? Perhaps you were taking her for granted? Perhaps you were boring her out? Perhaps many things.
Point is, you gotta find out WHEN things started going downhill, and, most importantly - WHY. Find the reason for why she started losing attraction and lust for you.
Then make sure you don't do the same mistakes with either this girl (if you get her back), or the future girls of your life.
Exactly.
No matter how much of a stud you think you are in the bedroom, there's AT LEAST a good HOUR to two HOURS of stuff you need to do first in order to get her ready for a fantastic sexual experience.
You kept pushing and pushing for sex with her, basically taking for granted that she would "give it" to you because you were bf and gf.
Well, guess what, women like ROMANCE and FOREPLAY. You need to stimulate their MIND and get them into the MOOD by making them feel the right EMOTIONS. They are not like men who are basically like a light switch and are immediately ready to fuck as soon as they see something hot.
When you're in a relationship, you want to make the girl feel special, that you like and appreciate her for who she is as a person, as well as how much you desire her and how sexy she is and how hot she makes you feel. You need to build up those emotions in her, and get her to start thinking about sex with you and visualising it and WANTING it by describing fantasies, what you're going to do to her when you see her / get her home later. When you finally do get her on your bed, you have to take time to take her clothes off SLOWLY, touch her all over her body, tell her how amazing she looks, feels, smells and tastes, give her great oral and make her orgasm, and THEN, and ONLY THEN, can you even think about your own pleasure and actually fuck her.
CHAT
