So I've been talkin to this girl for a few months and our first date went pretty well and we had suggested a movie the next time we go out, which was a month later. The week before I got downgraded to just meet up for coffee to talk instead of a movie and we just talked at starbucks and in the car.. then we were supposed to have dinner next week and now she says "yeah we can meet up for tea again or something."
WTF am I supposed to say?

well dont take her out on dates do errands with her or little things like if your big and buff say "hey im goin to workout you can tag along if you want" a PUA never ask anything of the girl because he has 5 more in line if she says no... if your a musician ask her to go get some coffie and when she gets there say "hey im running upstairs to get my guitar me and my friends might jam later come on" and put her arm in yours say "thats all you get" then when you get upstairs say "hey ive been workin on this song come here and listen to it"... if you dont know how to play guitar it will take like a month or so to learn just youtube some songs id suggest some love song for some reason girls like that and most girls take it as a DHV... i also like to smoke hooka with them... or say "hey my friends are comming over later i guess you can come but you gotta act cool or ill have to act like i dont know you"... just some stuff like that every guy she has met before has taken her on dates your different than every other guy your a pua...

oh yea and if you hadnt kissed her before you next see her... make it a must to kiss her the next time you meet her or you will be on the express lane to the friend zone

WTF? The phrase "you snooze you lose" springs to mind. Don't you see anything wrong with waiting that long to go on a date? I realize you want to fix the present situation and not dwell on the past, but that past blows chunks. Don't make the same mistake with the next gal.

Well she's just super busy with school and work and she lives 2 hrs away from her hometown, which i live in. she visits every other week or so..