So, here's the bit.

Met a girl and both of us have almost more work than we can handle. Or at least I do, and she says she does. So meeting up in person isn't easy. Met her 3 days ago, and we have been txting constantly, and yes txting is one of the worst methods of communication. If I didn't have unlimited text, I would have a several hundred dollar txt bill.

She is very interested, but has a strained relationship with a bf. They have been dating for 2 years, but now they are in college and he goes to a school an hour and a half away. She won't date me until the bf bit is decided, however she is still wants to know me better.

She gave me IOI's by not telling me about the bf at first, lots of touching, very close proximity.

I want to keep out of the friend zone for the time being, which means I need some sort of physical escalation usually, but she won't go for that. She is very loyal and won't cheat on him as long as they are in a relationship.

I really like her so far, and definitely want to get to know her better, and then most likely proceed to date her.

So, how can I win her over without looking like an asshole who is trying to pry her off her bf. And the bf is real, not just a fake.

-Emag

I don't want to turn this into another moral debate on how its wrong to steal someone's girl.

What I will say is you don't want to date a girl that will cheat on her boyfriend - she will do the same to you down the road.
Wrong, she will. A lot of women are dogs, and all women like to think that they are loyal and would never cheat but if she has a boyfriend and she is doing this:
Shes probably a dog.

Now that we have labelled her as such we can draw a very simple formula.

Depending on:
her recent interactions with her boyfriend,
her amount of alcohol consumption, and
your ability to be in the right place in the right time saying just the right thing..

She will cheat on him. And that act can always lead to something more.
Based on her interactions with you thus far (the touching,) Shes yours if you play your cards right. Just be warned, if shes a dog - treat her like one - you don't want to be in that relationship.

Ok, good thing to consider. Thanks for the advice. I will definitely keep on my guard about getting into a relationship.

She said, "My boyfriend is on his way " via text. So, how should I play this?

Chances of her bringing her bf over to the frat house is doubtful, but she might come over with some friends.

About the only way I have to contact her is by text.
Also she specifically said that she didn't know where the relationship with the guy is going yet, so...

Any advice?

-Emag

Dont engage in conversations about her boyfriend, obviously she is into you to some extent so her bringing up her boyfriend in conversation shouldn't phase you (she may be testing your reaction or trying to justify to herself that she has someone else)

If you say anything negative about her boyfriend she will take his side - something you do not want to happen. Be careful.

Thanks for the advice. I have been doing that so far.

Any more advice from anyone?

-Emag