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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 4:05 pm 
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So I've been going on dates and hooking up with this girl and we met up at a party, we both said we wanted to see each other cause I had been sick for a week.

I get there and she acts kinda distant and avoidant, goes to the dance floor without me, but with some dude she's friends with and this girl she knows. So I follow and end up dancing with her after she acts weird and dances with her girl friend for a bit in the "maybe I can scare him off" dance. While we're dancing we make-out a bit and she drops this "you definitely like me more than I like you." Forget that she was drunk, forget that she was probably just testing me all night, and realize that coming from a girl who has told you she has feelings for you, that kinda stings regardless of if it's a test, drunk stupidity, or even what she believes to be the truth.

It got me thinking "how many other girls thought this?" and now the only thing I can think to do (cause I'm really into this girl and can see an LTR coming from it in the near future) is to be like, the next time I go out with her, "so I know it's kind of silly, but you seemed to really want to throw me off on Friday." or something along those lines. Any better suggestions of how to handle this would be great. Cause she mentioned her list of other guys (obvious test) but this didn't seem so much like a test as it did something she was actually thinking that she just drunkenly let slip...and it bothered me...obviously.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:11 pm 
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Your the prize, remember that. Hit on some other chicks if she is boasting about other guys, hell do it in front of her!
I wouldn't like 'snog' girls in front of her but just flirt maybe.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 7:42 am 
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have to agree don't let anything a woman says get to you personally, you have to show a face of calm and let it slide off your shoulders. I wouldn't throw it in her face that you have a list of girls you do have to convey to her in other ways that you are in fact the prize and valued by other women.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 4:47 pm 
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If you dress up like Taylor Swift and perform this song for her, all will be saved. I did the hard part for you already. All you have to do is sing your heart out:


How many other girls thought this?
How many other girls thought this?

So I know it's kind of silly
like a date with uncle peewee

But you really wanted to throw me off on Friday
Off the roof off the boat, I'm a delicate souffle

You're tough, you dance with your friend and other friends
You're tough, you do the 'maybe I can scare him off dance'

I ain't scared, but but I'm a delicate souffle
You're tough, but sweet like a lemon flavored sorbet

How many other guys thought this?
How many other guys thought this?


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 3:24 am 
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That's a really arrogant and rude thing to say. She was being immature and trying to put you down to raise her own self-esteem. I think you should tell her you were really turned off by how she treated you. I don't even know her and I am,


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