Eye Contact with Jokes?



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 8:46 am 
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Just curious what the best advice is regarding eye contact when making a joke around a woman- should it be done or not?

I ask because I notice that I'm pretty good at making eye contact with women while meeting them, during the rapport stage, and even when negging, but if I make a general situational joke I'm usually looking straight ahead at nothing in particular- especially if I'm in a group.

I know that eye contact shows confidence, which is important, but I've also wondered if doing it when making a joke makes you appear too needy (i.e., could be construed as you watching her to make sure she laughs). Also, I make sure to have a confident tone behind my jokes- they're said with force, with the knowledge that what I say will be funny, and are always audible- but I rarely make eye contact while saying them.

Any thoughts? And would there be any differences between one-on-one and group conversation with this issue?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 9:12 am 
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Like any kind of body communication, it's how you make eye contact that matters. Make confident eye contact. Don't ask me how, just do it. "Your body can do a lot," if you don't think so hard about it.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:46 am 
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Do you think eye contact should be held during the entire joke then? If it's in a group, with whom, your target?


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I hold eye contact with everybody, straight into their eyes. Shows my dominance and control.


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