Hey guys,

I met this smoking hot alternative girl through one of my flat mates parties. At the first party I made a move with aggressive, stealth seduction style body language and got a k-close. I didn't get her number but got her facebook. I left her a message along the lines of: 'here's my number (x) text me sometime). A week later, she does: she's in my flat again with a load of booze and I should come see her. We drink, talk. She asks me for a massage ( I'm a physiotherapy student), I oblige her; in my room of course :p. Sexual escalation from the massage lead to an F-close. Multiple times in the same night.
She stayed over again the next night, from her body language now it's obvious she's comfortable with me resting her head on my chest etc. We have a laugh, watch some cartoons and stuff and she leaves.

I've been texting her since and she's usually quite responsive however I've asked her what she's up to this weekend and she's left me hanging on the text back.

Any ideas on the best way to go about arranging a day 2? (and I mean a date type job: coffee, cinema etc)

Also how long should I leave before I text her again or ring her?

Your advice would be very much appreciated on this matter guys.

Regards, Rage

This sounds like a pretty perfect situation, youve done a great job so far and it does not seem like you need to much help.

This is a late reply..

How is the weekend going so far?

Have you talked to her?

If she seems to be feeling you, dont let her not texting you back bother you too much. Second date is easy - wait a couple of days, then suggest something low-key yet spontaneous or different. Maybe you happened to be in the area so call her for a spur of the moment cheesecake break... whatevers close

First off thanks for the advice and replying.

I haven't text her or rang at all since I sent the text on Thursday. And my weekends been decent thanks.

So I think my plan is just to use a spontaneous 'cheesecake' style text and take it from there.

However I do have another question: how many texts, calls etc should I give her if she doesn't respond?

Hey just slow down on the texting. Do show too much attachment now because you got laid from her. Remember that's not how you got her.

Second, show her she didn't make a mistake, and give her a call. Treat her human, something simple along the longs, wanted to see how your week went, im heading to party on saturday, if you could make it awesome, if not, enjoy your weekend. We should watch cartoons soon, bye. lol

something simple along those lines should be enough information for you to gauge how interested she still is.