I know theres a lot of Alpha info out there but my opinion is:

Guys have lots of friends... for guys make a friendship with another guys is easy. if for you is hard to have friends is other your problem... well the problem with guys is that they think that women are not like men... i mean Human Beings... Try this... The next good looking girl you have an opportunity to interact in a social situation act with her like when you act with a guy you dont know... just be yourself... when you meet another man you are not thinking "HOW THE HELL I IMPRESS THAT MAN" ISNT IT... A and a few days later you are his friend isnt it... with girls is the same... AND with girls SEX is included... because they like men there no another problem...

Remember is not the girl is you...

I know this is the confidence forum and I'm sure that this post was intended to help relieve approch anxiety, by making would be PUA's feel like they can talk to ladys just like there buddies... But be carefull of the friend zone...

I have a friend who's entire strategy with women is to become there closest friend so he can sleep with them... how does this work for him? Well he has to be at there every becon call, pays for everything, and all in all gets used like crazy... He does f-close about 1 in 5 this way... after he's been dealing with thier crap for about a year...

On the other hand I never go into the friend zone if it's a girl I would want to get physicial with... I f-close about 9 out of 10 within 3 "dates" and they pay for there own shit... and about 70% of the time for mine too on "date" 1.

I understand needing to feel comfortable but be careful not to bang your head against the wall in the friend zone...

I kind of see his point. I mean when your in the LJBF zone Its a loss from the PUA standpoint because this is a girl you could have been fucking. From a confidence building perspective LJBF is a great way to get at least comfortable being around and talking to women. However, one could learn a lot of bad habits this way.

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I completely agree. It's a major difference in how you handle the woman. And, both ways happen all the time everyday. But the guys that handle it one way rarely ever get sex. However, the guys that handle it the other way get quite a bit of sex.