right, i am having fair success with the 6-7's but not making much head way with the 8+'s...

wait let me correct that, i am opening well, and then running out of steam... or either getting cock blocked real or perceived, so the head way is there just not so much the end result...

now headway includes talking, some touching and kissing in some cases (perhaps the most annoying ones), anything between 1-5 girls a night... trying to think what it might be?

dunno if i should mention others, i shoot myself in the foot with getting too drunk sometimes (way too often, but i live in a drinking culture)... maybe that's why i have more success with 6-7's than 8-9's, because they are more likely to put up with that kinda shit.

actually stopped drinking entirely a while back, found that we a big leap, no dutch courage, but that whilst i was hooking up slightly less often, that I was hooking u with hotter girls...

anyways, i need to sarge more often when i am in situations that allow it, walking on the street at lunch for example, seeing a hot girl there, and not making a move is almost frustrating, especially if i make up excuses not to talk to them... for example i need to get back to the office even though i have only been out for 10 minutes... afternoons are regularly written off in the pub though, so i suppose i need to work hard some times... see there is verbalisation of what i think is classic AA... (although this is entirely not a problem after 2 or more odd beers, I build up really good rapport at times) i know a crutch is terrible...

Well there we go, i think i have done a bit of self analysis, please comment as you see fit, as well, but i think the one major thing is that drinking 2 or three drinks is alright, but 8-10 is not really going to help at all...

Any other advice than drink a cup of hardenthefuckup and do some sober sarging, and even advice around that is appreciated.

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honestly all I can say is the more you approach sober, the easier it will become.

Couldn't have said it better myself. This is exactly my problem.
I need to do some sober sarging but sarging is hard to do alone.

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So post weekend, review...

was sarging a bit sober... ie for the train raide until i got to me mates barbecue...

it went well, got a few interested, made a few mistakes, but mostly it was the fact that i was opening sober that really made a difference.

@noochie - i prefer sarging alone, most people are terrible wings... i think what i need and what you need to look at doing is realising that there are not set places for meeting women, when you see a woman who catches your eye, it doesnt matter where, you have to go and talk to her (with the intent to pull not just make chit chat), else she will just be that hottie you saw, rather than either a number, kiss, or at the very least a learning experience...

that's me talking to the both of us!!

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everything i say is in my humble opinion...
"the more i practice the luckier i get"
gary player
"the more i practice the fuckier i get"
smashy