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PostPosted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 3:34 pm 
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i took this girl out on our third date for coffee she asked where ive been, so i DHVed and tolled her stories where ive been what countries ive been to etc, but while i talk to her her i notice she yawns and looks at her phone i pause and then starts listening to me. I have a really chilled voice

How can i make the conversation more interesting should i talk faster?

How do i esculate the stories make it interesting and keep her attention?


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 6:00 pm 
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either you are monotone or talking to fast. There are whole books just on this topic. Also get her engaged in the story and switch threads like crazy. Make links between the later threads and the earlier ones. through every revolution you should pick up more interest.

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ok cool what do you mean by linking later threads with earlier ones


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 12:07 am 
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ok cool what do you mean by linking later threads with earlier ones
IF you started by talking about cheese, then moved to talking about the moon, then animals, then somehow you link back into cheese again.

Topic A-B-C-D-B-D-C-D sounds very casual, interesting and is how you hear people who have known each other a long time talk.

Topic A-B-C-D-E-F-G sounds boring, rehearsed, and forced

To keep it really simple in the beginning when I was using almost all canned stuff I just went A-B-C-B-C-D It made it easy to stay focused. I dropped that pattern once it became a natural thing for me to just bounce around threads.

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cool man il keep this in mind :))


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