Was LJBF with girl for about two years. Stopped trying to break out of the friend zone after a while. We were drunk the other night and hooked up. There have been a lot more IOIs recently, although many while drunk. I have heard from a mutual friend she is interested in me. She wants to talk about what happened tomorrow. How do I approach the conversation if I do want to try and start a more concrete relationship with her - and fully get out of the friend zone - and not be a beta about it?

What I have picked up from everyone on these forums has helped me get with quite a few more girls lately, making her notice me more or something. I'm just not really sure what to do in this situation.

Just make sure you don't act like it's a big deal or act over interested. Assume an aura of "this kind of stuff is normal for me". I would show a little interest and then when she IOId you say something like "I'm really trying to keep my options open at the moment". Back and forth keeps girls on the edge of their seat and keeps you from becoming predictable. I really like Mysteries analogy of a laser pointer keeping the interest of a cat. Look it up on google or something. I would also make point to be the one who ends the conversation when the time comes. If it seems like you are trying to keep it going then it looks as though you have a desired outcome. If you are trying to seal up the LTR on the spot then once you know that she is 100% into being with you say "I always knew we would end up in this situation, well I figure it can't hurt to give things a try."

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My suggestion is, that if she wants to "talk" about what happened, you just give her a call and set up a time for her to come over, or for you to go to her place (I would try to choose the location based on where you think she will be most comfortable having sex.) Personally, I feel that if what I'm reading is true, and you two are in privacy when you have this "talk" it will probably immediately turn into more sex, so long as you time it right, and keep the conversation short

As far as the conversation goes, I would try to speak very little in the beginning. People are uncomfortable with silence, and will continue to speak to fill it. Let her talk until you get something you can use, as you will either A) Find out she wants to be in a relationship with you, which you can then say I feel the same way, or B) she will say she doesn't want to be in a relationship in which case you can say something like "whoah, yeah I agree. I hope that us hooking up didnt give off that impression" - and from there you just make her into your fuck buddy. Which- then is pretty easy to turn into a relationship if you know how to work it correctly.