Hi all,
I meet this girl thru facebook a month ago, she added me as a friend because we have a lot of friends in common. We talked a lot, then we start dating. They were a great connection between us. I'd like to add that I'm playing a natural game, I don't run out of material and I'm smooth. She asked to be into an exclusive relationship pretty quickly ( before sleeping together ), I accepted because they were a lot of attraction and connection between us. I thought she was different, she's probably the best catch since a long time ( very smart, pretty hot HB 9, and funny ).
Everything was great for 3 weeks, I could tell she was really addicted to me ( with her body languages, she was texting all the time ). The down things is that she flaked me one or two times a week, because at the last minute she's tired or have a lot of work.
Everything changed last Saturday, she became distant, she flaked me on sat night, and sunday, so I decided to freeze her. She contacted me today thru facebook, and telling me she wants to end the relationship. She said that it's not my fault, she's been thu a lot emotionally last year, it's hard for her to connect with me as she would like to, she have too much going on in her life, and there is anything I can do to change her decision.

I'm going to talk with her tomorrow, but it's pretty clear that it's done. I'm so choked that she completely flipped out in one day.
What to do ? What was my mistakes ? I was thinking that I didn't play hard to get enough... Or maybe there is an ex-bf that pulled some string behind...

Well, if that's the case...then so be it. When you talk to her...ask all those questions below and tell her, please be honest.
This was in another post...actaully mentioned quiet a few times too from both sides...I don't want her...how do I let her go....I want her, how do I keep her?

Both are very similar in a sense...

How...well, you both aren't in sync...one wants a relationship...the other doesn't.
You can change her mind but it's not worth the effort...if she decides to try, it's most likely because she is being nice and that will fade really quick with a shit ton of resentment for you making her stay when she didn't want too. Your best bet...let her go...ask your questions and leave it at that. There is a good chance that she may contact you sooner than you think.

Consider, she may be going through alot, work, ex bf, family issues...do you really want to hear all of that...and if so...she probably doesn't want you to look at her in that type of light...some crazy nut job with drama...better to cut the cord, let her handle her business and then if and when she is ready...perhaps you can try again.

But for me...I wouldn't force her or change her mind.

I know it's hard...but if you didn't want to proceed with a relationship but someone tried to game/beg/convince you to stay...would you?

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You are right...there is another guy in the picture pulling strings. Women will make time for a guy they really like. Whenever a woman all of a sudden talks about how she doesn`t have time or is too busy to put energy into the relationship that means another guy stepped into your position.Not much you can really do about it.

Change in the plans... She told me thru chat message that she doesn't want to meet and it's unnecessary. It definitely makes me think that there are things that's I'm not aware of, and she doesn't want to talk about. I guess she knows that I'm too good at reading body language and expressions, or she doesn't have honor, balls... I don't think it's that hard to give 10 min to someone. This is incredible...

Where is this world going if we can just only have asepsis dehumanize conversation thru internet ?!

Perfect relationship, and in one day everything change and you're dick is homeless...
So here we go, I'm back to practice and perfect my game. It's gonna be very hard for the next one to makes me commit. Keep your GF's home buddies

Her BF and her broke up, you were the rebound, they got back together. Sorry to hear it.

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You just got to hate when you are let go trough facebook, text messages or phone. What happend to honesty and just saying to the other person face to face what the reasons are. Guess women dont have the balls I guess like you said...