Duuuude, what happened to the Doritos body-shots thing from Cedius?

I would make myself a little scarce for the moment. You've had a comfort night. From #2 it sounds a bit like she is slyly training you to be that comfort guy by positively reinforcing your behavior. "Hey, this was great. When guys that want to get in my pants come over, I usually get annoyed, but you're so easy to deal with." She is getting the comfort without having to do anything. "Hug buddies." That is for boyfriends and best friends, and you are neither.

(There is nothing wrong with that; I have a girlfriend, but I'm just saying it doesn't sound like what you want...)

When you do see her again, keep escalating to break that sexual barrier. It is okay if you don't feel comfortable doing it on her period, but if so, make sure next time you see her it isn't a problem.

If you want to be seeing several chicks simultaneously, I'll paraphrase some advice from Blondguy I saw elsewhere (I hope this is accurate)... refuse to discuss the details. I think this girl is playing this out to see if you drop the other(s), but you don't have to play that way. Not talking about your other partners (other than making sure she knows it is an open relationship) is requisite to success.

OK...question - WHYYYY is she playing it out to see if I drop chicks for her?

She's interested in your date probably to see how interested you are with her, if you go through with it etc, stop feeding her all the ammo, because trying to get her thinking too much could end up in the LJBF zone again, by her thinking your not what she wants, so keep talk casual there.

refuse to discuss the details. I think this girl is playing this out to see if you drop the other(s), but you don't have to play that way. Not talking about your other partners (other than making sure she knows it is an open relationship) is requisite to success.

Yeah...wait on the Dorito's bit...you don't want them with her salsa!

Okkk dudes, I'm not giving out any more information to her and I'm not texting her unless she gets in touch.

We spoke early on in the day yesterday, she knows because I was with her it fucked up my date with the other girl...

The last messages were

HB9: "Oh fuck, that was my fault for distracting you...she'll forgive you if you do a bit of grovelling, women are weak "
ME: "Lol i'm not bothered about it anyways, it didn't happen for a reason...but I'm still going to blame you so you can make it up to me :p"
HB9: "thought I was gonna leave you alone from now on?" - she's never said this!
ME: "I wouldn't agree to that, it wouldn't be fair on you!"

Hopefully by the next time I see her she won't be bleeding! Although I hear you're not a warrior until you've got blood on your sword!