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| slyder2412 | PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 5:29 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 6:32 pm Posts: 402 | | Hey what's up dudes? Ok...i'll give the run down. This girl in my class has not so much sent me IOI's..although she did say "we both dorm so we can meet up to study"(IOI i thought)..but always found her way near my seat(some proximity theory people talk about). Since class is only once a week i decided to finally act.
Ok..basically built up rapport and get her laughing/touching hair...and i think sticking out of the chest a little bit(or maybe her tits are bigger than i thought). Although my body language was not amazing, i did catch her mirroring me multiple times usually when she was laughing. Question: It was me...her..and this guy...i basically had the conversation in my frame the entire time...and would shoot questions at the other kid so it wasn't like i was so caught up with her. I did get 2 counts of kino in.
Ok..i broke my phone so when i asked her for her number i basically just put the pen/paper in her face and said initially "give me your number" but she didn't hear me so i AFCed for a sec and said "let me get your number". I doubt it's a big deal but w/e. After she wrote her number/name down she said "wait, how are you gonna call with no phone?" Sounded like an IOI to me...but not sure. My thing was "lets
meet up and study" but i really don't know if ill get my phone in a few days. Do you guys think the wait is a negative? Prob 3-4 days before i'll get to call. I'm normally good(i thought) on the phone..but that was when i didn't know about this PUA stuff.
I mean i really don't give a shit about studying with her because i can just do that shit on my own...how do you guys think i should allow the reason i'm calling her (studying) to dissolve? When we meet up should i just completely forget about the fact we are meeting up to study and just have fun with her and get her talking? Thanks for the read everyone!
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| xxIcexx | PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 6:48 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Sep 01, 2007 3:32 am Posts: 1026 Location: New England | | yeah meet up somewhere chill to "study"
but try to break away from "studying" and going into sarge mode, but since you already have her number and it would be considered a day2, go from there
but if for some reason she really does want to study, be playful while doing in, kino, and then suggest you go grab something to eat or something else _________________ I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.
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| Aceospades12 | PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:32 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2007 10:30 pm Posts: 206 Location: RI | | yeah dude just be real careful about falling into the ljbf trap... that can easily happen while fulfilling the study buddy role.
Make sure you either bounce her to another location after studying
or put on a movie and make sure to get hella kino going
if u just spend ur 1st study date studying the whole time - itll be harder for u to break that frame
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| slyder2412 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 7:51 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Sep 02, 2007 6:32 pm Posts: 402 | | Btw...does texting first or calling first make a difference? I'd prefer to call but i maybe since this new technology is the norm that's the first step? Idk.
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