Alright, heres the breakdown first backround with me and this girl, were friends we met this yet she has a boyfriend. I had surgery she visited calli. 3 months went by, so today is the first time Ive seen her in a while. She had a guy over not her boyfriend just some random AFC. HERES WHERE IT STARTS.

1st. walk up to the male and introduce myself give a very strong hand shake.

2nd. sit on bed with girl and boy and smoke weed and catch up.

3rd. DHV'd did some NLP tricks it blew her mind she said "omfg you just fucked my mind"

4th. Continued small talk, then went into more DHV story's and NLP.

5th. introduced Kino first when she was talking I poked her in the head (playfully) said " what is going on up there" she laughed

6th. she put kief in our bowl and I said "OMG I fucking love you" i hug her

7th. more small talk until she has to leave to see her boyfriend

8th. As i got up before i could put my coat on she RAN up and hugged me. NOW useally everytime we hug out before i learned this I always had to hug her or never get one

SOOOOOO what Im asking is, is this a real IOI or am I just wishing it was I mean she does have a boyfriend BUT this didnt feel like a friend hug in my opion but I could be wrong

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Why are you over analysing this?
If a girl is acting extra friendly and likes you and wants to touch you she likes you.
Don't constantly look for IOIs just see how she responds around you.

What do you want?

She has a boyfriend, so if you want a one-night-stand, go for it. Those are IOI's.

If you really like this girl and you want a relationship, storm out until she breaks up with him, or start a BF destroyer techniques (always as an outsider). In any case, dont go out with her, dont flirt with her, don call her etc etc. Wait for your moment. Date other girls.

You absolutely do NOT want to start a relationship with her CHEATING on her boyfriend. This will end up in disaster no matter what.