Ok im talkin hb8-9 here that opened me and my friend with a handshake. She was really turned on i could tell by my buddies black coyboy hat we were in downtown tulsa ok anyways she gave her name handashake to my buddy first then me yo be polite im sure but i really felt like i shouldnt even told her my name or something i seriously thought about using woodrow or elvis something stupid but i gave my real name. I would of gamed this girl but she was reqlly into my friend and didnt want to cock block so i said basically nothing. She asked us to go to some bar with her that night but didnt know the name of the bar... And then when my buddy asked fir her number she just said to meet us there at the bar... Idk if she was seriously dumb or really smart and messing with our heads.. But anyways i was really justwanting to know what to do when girl inttoduces self with handshake?

"She's just not that into you."

Nah, just f*ckin' with ya'.

Well I've had that happen to me several times. Your into a girl but she's into your friend and blahblah.

Here's what I do. Well, usually. If i really WANT the girl I take her, game simple.

Just act like your there because your bored bro. Remember, she shook your hand, you really shouldn't care less. Be yourself, be cocky, be funny, and look into her eyes whenever you talk. 9-times out of 10 your friend wont know what your doing, or he'll be intimidated by you, and slip up with her. All-the-while you've been playin' her all night bro.

Be creative. Let your friend slip on saying something, then you just catch him, and say something clever. Shut up, rinse and repeat till she's yours, or until he goes away. lol

EXAMPLE!---------- (This happened 2 days ago.)

Me and my friend Danny were strolling through the mall, and we decided to go into Hollister. Mostly because he wanted to holler at a girl there.

Well, we stayed for awhile, and before we left there was his girl. He nudged me and said "Yo, I'm gettin' her man." I acknowledged, and let him go for her. I just watched him make the stupidest mistake he could have made.

Danny: What happens if I knock down those clothes your putting up?
HB9: I'd have to kill you, for one...
Danny: Well let's just say I do, what's the closest thing to you to even "hurt" me with?
(I smile a side smirk)
HB9: I'll find something...
Danny: what's your name girl?
HB9: Hailey. Yours?
Danny: Why do you want MY name?
Danny: You gonna send me a Valentines card or something?
(I step in)
Marcus: What about your other 3 girls bro? They might get jealous, they haven't met her yet.
(I shut up)
HB9: *smiles at me*
Danny: *beats around the bush, keeping a conversation leaving me open to put my 2 cents worth in every minute.*
HB9: *trying to work now bored*
Danny: So listen girl, you have "email"?
-I laughed my a** off at her response-
HB9: My email? That's kind of weird...
Danny: Well, I thought asking your number would be too forward.
*Danny grabs a pen*
Danny: Alright girl, write your number down.
*Shows her pen*
*She just look at him*
*I get out my phone silently, and slowly*
Marcus: Look, do you mind? What's your number Hailey.
*HB9: gives me her number.*
Marcus: *smirks* Take care, I'll text you soon.
*I start to walk out the door*
*Danny stays still trying to talk*

DON'T DO THAT! Get the number, then walk off.

Finally after 2 more minutes of her gettin' pissed I drag him out of the store. Throw him out, and tell him to stay, like a good doggy.

*Approaches Hailey.*

Marcus: This is why we don't let him meet new people.
Marcus *leaves before a response*


I know you've done what Danny did in your life. In fact, you might still do. The key is to remain mysterious. Get your 10 cents worth, then leave with a smile like it didn't phase you. [/b]

Also, just for the record, I'm still texting that girl, lol

Employ the use of strong body language, humor, clever and interesting conversation to escalate the situation. If a girl introduces herself to you she is already interested.



I hope no one listens to this crap. Don't be a snake.