What can I say, I chose the name for a reason. My Goal. A life improvent.

I'm making this into a journal. Its something I need to stick to. I will say I made the first step, probably the hardest for me. (Trying and hopefully found a wing.)

AA, or aprroace excitemnt as I'm going to call it, is my main problem. At least so far. I'm 22, in the Army, have deployed, and talking to a girl trips me up. Irony is for the past 2 years I've pretty much talked for a living.

I first heard of pickup artists when I was on leave, waiting for a buddy to get off work and browsing in a Barnes and Noble. What do I find, The Game by Style. As soon as I picked the book up I couldn't put it down. Cover to cover. I think I read it in a day actually. That was 3 years ago. Now I'm looking around and I've finally want more. My job might satiate me for meaning in my life, but it doesn't keep me warm at night.

Now I'm looking at going to Germany in about a month and a half or so. I'm going to a place where the clubs are aboulty off the chain. And I dont' want to be a wall flower anymore. I am not going to sit on the sidelines. I know I'm good looking (at least decent looking. 8/10). Its the taking I cant be afraid, won't be afraid of.

Wednesday is payday, getting numbers isn't the goal, getting a date isn't either. Its getting over the the intial 2.5 seconds to start talking.

Alright, today was spent cleaning my car (still need to carpet clean the inside) and going over meterial.

The goal for tomorrow is to open 5 sets. I'm starting off with a human anatomy question.
Hey, my friends and I are having this debate the first to 5 wins, I can only stay a second I have to catch up to them. Whats the largest organ in the human body (skin). Depending on how well they do I'll turn it into a 2 parter. Something like: That was a prequalifying question. Now heres the real one. Where is your anatomical snuff box. (below the base of your thumb on the back of your hand, google it.) Next to no one is going to get that one right. And neg slightly with it.
Then go into the best friends test, or if its a single person I'll try the cube.

I think you will do great, dont expect to much to soon, just see any improvement (no matter how small) as more than you usually do.

When I see PUA's setting goals it is usually a positive sign, as they are actually doing something about it. Suprised it took 3 years though, unless you was focusing on other things and improving your life in other ways.

Good luck man

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"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Well to be honest, I'm rounding up by quite a few months. Its actually closer to two. A deployment to Iraq also puts a monkey wrench in things.

But tonight went well, it started with joking with a few cashiers. Nothing big but it did start the night out well. Then meeting up with Bl4CKICE23, things started popping. Went to open a 3 set that turn into four, but the english wasn't that good and kinda killed it from the start. I think they just really didn't want to talk to be honest.

We went to hit up the mall where things actually went pretty well. Open up a two set that turned into 3, 20 minutes later. (Hey I'm looking for a pair of shoes to get for my mom as a present for valentines day. Convays some DHV, also helps that it rolled of the tip of my tounge.) Then BL4CKICE23 came up and introduced himself after a couple minutes of looking at shoes. A couple negs here and there, rolled into the best friends test. And 5 minutes later they were helping look for cloths for an escort. We shortly turned into being a couple of pimps. But it was fun. Got a coat for peacocking. By the time we ended the mall was pretty much empty (it was 8:30)

But the coat got heads turning. Just need to get a shirt and some pants for it.

Tomorrow its back out, on set per store.

Alright today went pretty well. the jealous girlfriend really does work. Also gave a reason to come up and start talking after BL4CKICE23 started into a set. (Walk up after: Hey Danny's girl is going balistic. I'm pretty sure they're gonna break up this time- into story).

Openning does is easier and easier. It really is the first couple that are the hardest to do. Even if she doesnt really want talk she doesnt want to be rude and puts forth the social smile.

Oh and the hellokitty backpack that he was wearing did open up sets. Actually opened a set that I number closed after he over heard them talking about it.

Now its on to the midgame to work on a bit.

Oh really! Describe the jacket if you can, what was the peacock factor?

I'm always curious about peacocking because It is hard to do, whilst getting more positive reviews over negative ones.

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"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Alright, I haven't been slacking, I've been out sarging. The jealous girlfriend opener does work. I used it quite abit and everytime it started up a conversation at the very least. One which became a number close. Although they said it kinda seemed like a set up untill my wing came over and continued it.

But if I wasn't talking to a girl or dancing, I was opening guys. (Hey did you see those to girls fighting, or hey whats up hows the night going for you) There was probably 20 minutes in the entire night that I wasn't talking to someone.

Oh and the coat is white, furry and comes down to my mid back. (its large in womens and barely fits me [I'm a medium to small]) Think gorrilla.

Alright, I'm gonna write this before I pass out again. (Just getting in from the club.)

And no, I haven't been slackin. If I'm not out with family, I've been out sarging. I think I've taken two days off so far.

Alright then night ended and started on a high note. Waiting in line to get in the club (18+, my wing isn't 21) and I start chatting with K and V. I tease both of them for a couple minutes and dont really hit on the, obviously that is. They're both sisters and V was ignoring me at the beging, untill I brought her into the set. After we get in, I think I chatted with them twice (right when we got in, first 4 people in) and mid way through the night. Where K fell for "What color is a fridge (white) what does a cow drink (milk) again." Didn't number close and went back to working the crowd.

Midway through some girls that we met last week come out to join us. Its fun and it gives me someone to dance with and chat with between sets. They end up going home like an hour later.

End of the night. (20 or so till the club closes, before last call) I start into the last set with jelous girlfriend. She doesn't even let me get past the first sentence before going straight to my wing and talking to him. Thank god, because that leaves the cuter one for me. We get to chatting, I bring up the book Hitchhiker Guide to the Galaxy, whats the answer 42. And the girl I'm chatting with says this is my song, points to another dude, and drags him to the floor. I'm thinking I messed up at this point. I dont' feel so bad when she drags a diffrent guy then the one she pointed to to the dance floor. She comes back, we're still talking to her friend. Or more accuretly, I'm chilling, whats she going to do leave without her friend.

We're chatting in the parking lot at the end of the night and some guy is being a bit persistent about getting a phone number and annoying her. Not me, I hadn't even asked. So I said one second and I'll get rid of him. And put my arm around her. He goes a way and I turn to her and say problem solved. So we continue chatting, where I end up give her the shit test, and from the street I hear my name being called. I thought it was the girls that met us, coming back from dropping off a friend. Nope it K and V "Do you have their number" is what I heard "No" "Come get mine"

And then got back to the set and continued. We ended up talking till 4:50 in the morning. And there's the chance, a good one, that she'll come out clubbing with me tonight. Oh and she did give me her number.

Tonight, pretty fun. Didn't go as well as planned, but thats what plans are for. The intresting part of the night is when I opened these girls sitting next to us, and 2 minutes later a whole group of them swarm. "It the Guy." They remembered me from last week and my "cheezy pick up line". (the one about the fridge and milk).

Did end up getting a number from an austrian chick though and worked through some keno escalation.

Alright, now tonight was the best night sense I started. And I'll be honest, I didn't use a single opener.
I went out without a wing ( I wanted to go to a 21+ club), which I will say makes it a bit harder. Having someone there for encouragement does help. So after an hour there, the dance floor opens. I love to dance, I really do, so I go and end up next to this four set. They opened me. Now what I think I did right was not being over eager. "Hey dance with my friend, its her birthday. (HB8)" "Eeeeeh, I supose I could." I didn't even end up dancing with her for like a half an hour, I was dancing with her cute friend (HB7.5). When we were through dancing I turned my back on the group, didn't move just turned for a song. Then long story short, a half an hour later I'm dancing with HB8, mind you we never left the dance floor.
So we are dancing and end up moving half way across the dance floor, supposedly I was causing trouble some how (To which I replied "I never said I was a good guy", and kept going)
So at 1230ish she says "you having fun". 'I'm having an ok time.' "1-10." 'Aaabout a 7' "What can I do to make it better." 'Well you can tell me your name' (mind you we've been dancing for an hour and some change at this point) so we exchange names. "How bout now" '7.5' "What can I do to make it a 10" 'What do you think' "A kiss" and we kiss '9.5' and kiss agian 'Alright 10' and from that point on it was pretty much making out on the dance floor. So they leave at like 130 and I haven't got her number. She sends her friend back to get mine, or her friend did it. In hind sight, I should have got her number instead of giving mine out. But hind sight is 20/20

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I just relised I did something really stupid. I'm looking at RSD right now. Kinda mind opening. And thinking about my last sarge and applying it back on it. I didn't follow her the entire night. I was instride.
Although I did mess up a text. Mostly because I should hit her up when she said she was bored and doing nothing at home, and I didn't capitalize upon it. Hey, at least I'm looking at it and trying to improve. And even then it was only a slight mistep
The night up to the kiss close was pretty good. I should have said 85 instead of 95 though.

Aright, I've got to say this. I got this chick to make me pancakes.

Alright, I haven't been lazing off, but getting to a new post some requirements that can be a little time consuming. Plus it didn't help that for 2 weeks I wasn't suppost to go to the bar, not say that I didn't but when I did it was to drink.

Alright so last night my game was on point. I didn't get laid, but if I wasn't talking to a girl, I was drinking, and if I wasn't drinking I was dancing. And last night I wan't dancing by myself. I made some adjustments to my game. I've stopped using anything canned. My opening line is Hey hows your night going. When they say good I say that that is unacceptable. You stay home to have a good night, you come out to have a great night. Then I usually will ask again how her night is going and she'll say great and I tease her for changing her answer. And that starts to conversation. Although I did get asked by two of the chicks that I talked with for a bout half the night each if I was gay.

I had a 5 minute make out last night. Well maybe like 15 minutes. Chicks here kiss. They'll give you a little peck. She gave me a little peck and I told her that she was a bad kisser. She then went to kiss her girlfriend to prove other wise, I kept my oppion. 2 minutes later we were making out. It wasn't going futher then that but the make out was further then I planned on going with her.

Alright, so last weekend was the last time I could go out for the next 6-11 months. I've got a deployment to do, and hopefully everything will go more then well

Well, It took what the better part of 5 months, but this is what I've learnd so far:

I am able to say I'm over AA, really whats the worst that a woman is gonna say, go F yourself. It took that long to come to terms that I'm the one with more social value and she is rejecting one of the best people that she'll ever meet.

I'm good looking. The first time a woman said it to me, I thought that she was just trying to pump my ego. When woman pretty much every woman that I've openned well (By that I mean that its gone for more then a 5 minute conversation) has said it and even some of the ones I've passed in the club for 4 seconds.

If your going out your first goal should be to have fun, then to pick up chicks. They might go hand in hand, but if your out to have fun first, then your night is going to be great even if you don't meet someone.

When your talking to a woman and your buddy comes up, doesn't matter how well you know him, ignore her for a minute and catch up with him. Speaking of which, make friends with girls in the club if your not trying to lay them, actually make friends with them period. It great social value to have a woman come up and hug you and be happy to see you again.


Well thats my two cents. Like I said in a previous post, I've given up as much canned material as I am able to. I'm an intresting person, I have a bunch of stuff to talk about. (although I don't think I'm gonna talk about why I'm not going to have a girlfriend or wife while in the army again. Its not that it went bad, It just didn't go as well as it could have.)

Well I'm logging off of this journal, Its been a fun time with you all, and you'll see me around the forum.