Ok this is mainly for my own improvement but welcome to read, this will build with time as i get out in the field more, hopefully going at least once a weekend for daygame, not old enough for clubs and bars yet.

First field report: went out to town where thought would be plenty of oppotunities to practise some daygame. but went with 2 mates. I kept a friendly confident attitude and opened one girl on my own, simply asking her what a good xmas present would be for a girl, she was responsive and told me all about how i should get crystals as they have healing powers?! anyway next time i think ill go on my own. definatly have issues with AA, but think i just need a strong start to get momentum going, as i know AA is pretty normal even in mpua.

thats it for todays daygame, got a party tonight so tonight/tomorow will be updating with what happened (most likely more than daygame as im most experienced in a party SPAM)

You have done the first step.Making approaches will lower your approach anxiety to 0 after some time.

No,mpua doesnt have any anxiety about their approaches.

You have a nice opening.You can add some more conflict in it and make it more intresting,but i think it will work anyways.

Your anxiety is inner game problem.With that i mean your frame of mine is to hit a number.Try to make an opening,then transition to a normal conversation.This is will take about 5 mins.Do it some times.Then add a light disqualification between opener and transition. Do 20 approaches without aiming for number.Soon the anxiaty will be reduced.

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cheers for reply adanos, yeah will tkae your advice and do that, just wondering, would this work: when in convosation with a girl, qaulifying her first, then from her responses telling dhv stories?

anyway, went out last night, the party was abit limited girl wise, and i knew them all, but it was still a good chance to practise game. I didnt need to open but used a situational pre-selection dhv, which was actually true near enough lol, and tried some qualification routines with a few girls, pretty much all complyed and qualified themselves. After doing hte pre selection routine, isolating then qualifying, I kiss closed a HB7, nothing special and i probably didnt need to qualify after isolating, but practise makes perfect right. overall had fun, didnt take too seriously and kept in a confident alpha playful mood. good times.

things learnt: once in the field get out of your head, not as in drunk, but just act naturally, hopefully if your inner game is right and you have enough knowledge, your game should come natural. I think it looks wierd if your constantly reaffirming beliefs in your head while out in the field. Also, generally have fun, take pressure of yourself!

Well said.

About qualifying her,Nnope,i wouldnt say that...teasingly disqualify is what i could suggest.It always work for me,since in greece girls are usualy very unapproachable,and when you seem like hitting on them,you lose them 100%.

So disqualify so she has to work to win you.Also it helps for :high value,humor,confidence.

(example : aw,seriusly?You seem such a troublemaker!)

Keep the good work.And remember!Women are not holes in your belt my friend,they are human beings!I hate my self when i point out "HB7-8-9 or whatever"!!
And i neither count them!I remember each one of them,but no counting

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at school today, had a fair thing so no lessons just had stalls set up, good social enviroment! I did notice that, whearas on a normal school day, my fun social being is toned down, in this social enviroment, even with the same people as when a normal school day, I am alot more outgoing. should I try to be like that in school normally, or adjust my game slightly when in school?

anyway, i kept a good fun confident happy state, how my main aim was simply to game this girl which i had already created attraction (I think) my plan was to do some push/pull compliance testing, however, by having that aim, i realise i missed many other oppotunities to game different girls. I did find this other girl in the end, we spoke but it was busy so didnt get a chance to isolate/properly game her, or at least dont yet have the skill to in sucha busy enviroment.

all in all, main thing ive learnt is to go out with intention of gaming EVERY girl i can, practise as much as i can and just enjoy doing it, after all the outcome doesnt really matter. looking forward to saturday for day game, then going to a under 18's club monday so that should be fun, update soon!

School is a great place..but there arent many positve feelings so she can connect you with her.Exept if you create them!

Another thing at school is that you will keep seeing that person,that means she must do moves too.The game might take more time,but it will be solid.Chat up,have a nice conversation,and then leave..dont spend too much time on one person(friends are not included)

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Been stuck in because of dam snow, though am going to go out and do day game at least once before xmas. Still been learning and gathering my own personised routines, congruent with my identity and some just from my life, needed to practise them so tried by texting girls who i hadnt seen in a while on my phone. asked them what a gd xmas present for a girl would be then ran dhv pre-selection sotry, built further attraction through role play and false disqualifiers, then with one did some good bait hook reel release. was ment to be meeting one today, but she had to go to her nans or some shit, ment to be meeting another 2moro, not too bovvered really mainly txting out of boredom, but seriously need to get out in field and open new girls!!

havnt had as much practise as i liked, went to town with a mate to meet a girl, planned on approaching before but both had too much AA, though im going tomorow on my own just to approach, even if i do just one set thats enough, first step is always the hardest.
Anyway, met this girl after my mate went, was going ok though shes only hb6 so wasnt considering getting with her just yet. Walking along high street when she tells me shes looking out for her 20 year old ex bf who is arguing with her cos she dont wana see him till he goes BACK to prison, for attempted armed robbery btw. believe i got the fuck outa there so fast, all that for just a HB6? anyway will update tomorow

Ok, went to busy place today on my own to practise some day game. My aim was to approach 20 girls or sets, though i had to be realistic as AA is a big thing for me, so decided i would just use situational openers, apparently even that was unrealistic.

couldnt even approach 1 set, yes, i failed. The wierdest thing is friday night i was out doing night game, approached many sets and number closed one girl, yet its funny how much harder it is when you cant hide behind the darkness of a club/party, the loud enviroment where you wont look out of place approaching, and perhaps being a little drunk, as long as having your mates. Day game is much harder for me to approach. I am a confident guy who can have stimulating interactions with women, yet i just need to get over this daygame AA, i also think part of it is the conformity of the crowd in the day, NOBODY is out to meet new people, so i guess i gotta just break through this and be the one who is meeting new people

anyway, im not giving up, next week i will be out again for daygame, on my own, yet perhaps my aim will just to be approach 5 girls this time. Need to be completly focused and get over this.

in reaction to my last attempt at day game, ive been working alot on inner game, and ive already seen a rise in my confidence and general game.

This took my a while to come up with a way to do this, so for those who havnt yet, my practical advice:

Recognise limiting(bad) beliefs you have about you, the world or the future, and/or recognise beliefs which you would like to have, which you feel will help you best.

"realise" the bad ones arent true and the good ones are, through journaling: writing down all the times the good beliefs have been true, and the bad ones untrue. add to this and do for a few mins everyday, you will find your subconcious automatically changes your behaviour, and your thoughts will be more positive. Im just about to read an NLP so will let you know if anything else works, and update on next day game attempt

dont think anyone reading these anymore haha, but thats cool pretending they are is a way for me to journal my stuff

Ok, well went out today with a mate, and unlike last week, approached 5-6 sets with indirect openers out today, more just to prove to myself i could rather than anything else.

and do it i could, the nlp stuff, like anchoring confidence and new behaviour generator does help, not only in pickup but everyday life, aswell as journaling for beliefs. But overall, you just gotta move your body and approach.

And today, i realised, people really are friendly. All the girls I approached were at least friendly, and at least a few seemed to want me to stay, even though i ejected soon after opening, next week im gunna try the "blow me or blow me out" approach and stay for as long as possible.

Overall ive realised i do quite easily have the ability to approach, and that girls dont mind, infact they welcome it, im generally excited for next week to keep approaching, and now just want to focus on improving game now that im over the first hurdle of actually taking the step.

ok went out friday night, wasnt explicitly planning on pickup, but was a little bored so thought why not

was very underpopulated where i was of hot girls, yet found one set. they all looked alot older about 19-20, and i was surprised by my own confidence, i guess bcos i didnt really care how it turned out

I just walked up to them, asked them how old they were, completly direct asking them to come hang out, and within about 20 secs number closed the hottest blonde there (HB8)

Awesome! this gives me a big confidence boost and makes me realise, hey, girls like to be approached, they want to meet high value guys like ourselves too nah?

anyway now just need to focus on getting consistent long practise in, peace

havnt been on here in a while, but stiill been practising where I can. However, at some point I came to a lull where i found I just hadnt been practising enough, this is when i found the 30 day challenge from niell strauss's the rules of the game, it is awesome big recommend if new to game.

Anyway today, went with a new wingman who found out was also into game, and tried to complete day 7, which was to simple approach 3 sets with an opener. thats it. Id done the exact same thing the week before with another friend who didnt know about game and just thought i was having a laugh, and it had been fun.

However this time, got into town and for some reason had AA bigtime. I could barely make eye contact let alone approach. So i finally work up the cahonas to approach, and I crash and burn. They simply look at me and walk off. ouch, though it was good being with someone so i could take light of the situation.

after this, i approached another set, went fairly well they responded well. from here went from strength to strenght, going on a small instant date with sisters from new zealand. Good times! glad i showed myself i could go from having serious AA to breaking through it, just willpower i guess

anyway now just gunna look at abit of theory in daygame approaching, then go back out there tomoro or next day and get day 8 done

peace

today went out intending on approaching 3 sets with new improved opener, didnt think it would be too hard seeing as went with wing few days before and did same thing, however, i was wrong.

This time I went alone, and it clearly is one of my sticking points that im too afraid to sarge alone, it is not my comfort zone. Even being out alone seems to put me out of my comfort zone socially.

But fuck it, im not giving up, its not beating me. So here is my plan to get over my alone AA:

1. Have something to do. In my opener I state im meeting somebody, but im actually going to have something to do, even if its simply looking around certain shops, this way I will feel less strange.

2. ask 5 people for the time, this will get me out of my shell so to speak

3. Know my intent is to have a look for w.e in shops, to have fun and talk to some new people

I have decided to wait till wednesday to break my limiting beliefs about sarging alone, as tomorow will be spent going through all the major NLP books out there, and coming up with a few daily exercises to help me with my inner game not just for pickup, but for life. I say this as I feel I am going in circles with affirmations of this belief or whatnot.