I was at a water park yesterday,..and there was this HB who was the hottest than all the other,..and she was all alone,..I wasn't swimming an she was ,..an while she was swimming I was looking at her but at first she was looking away,..but later on I noticed she was looking at me very much we even held eye contact for a long time but I just couldn't open her,...I felt like such a pussy afterwards
I have been reaing AA advices for so long gut it's just hard for me to get over it,..it's my only sticking point in the game,...Any help??

Just Do It. Geez I wish I got prolonged eye contact out of gals, never seems to happen with the ones I want. I don't sweat it; I'm just saying, if she's given you that much of a leg up you need to be a man and go make your move. No game required. If a gal wants to talk to you, any dumb excuse for conversation will do. Remember that when you're stressing. Game is for when gals don't think they want to talk to you.

Well take it this way... how did not approaching her worked out for you? If you want the same result with other girls keep on doing the same.

Oh and girls are much nicer then you would believe. Even if they want nothing to do with you they will mostly do it in a very gentle and socialy calibrated manner. You won't get slapped, you won't get yelled at. You will get a polite, " Sorry I'm not interested/have a boyfriend" that's all.

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You are very correct man,..she wanted to talk to me,that means she made it very easy for me,..I have to admit that I missed a big one here,...but am not going to do the same mistake next time and onwards

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I have seen that alot of times with guys trying to approach girls and it turns out not to be a big deal afterall,..As I said,..I won't waste any more opportunity in opening from now on.
Infact a girl just opened me toay in a mall,..she wasn't super hot(you know that rarely happens)but she was had a very nice and sexy body with a not so much cute face,...
She gave me an opinion opener on a which deodorant she could take(she knows game lol),..I was suprised but i told her on which to take and negged her a little an she was laughing and hits me on the arm,..then I went direct with her and she reacte weirdly(she suddenly changed and the fun vibe from her was gone),..after that I then decided to take her number,...but she wouldn't pick up or reply my calls,..Did I put her off with the going direct,..??o I still have a chance with her??

How did you "Go direct" on her? I see 2 things. Either 1) it was not done properly/genuinly, something was wrong in the delivery. or 2) she was not interested in anything more then iddle chat. That's the good thing about being direct. you find out #2 right off. See, perhaps she has a bf which she is very fond of. You can chit chat in a friendly manner and even if she feels the flirt she can just disregard it with a "he's just being friendly" mentality. By going direct you get an immediate feedback.

In a nut shell, if you are sure your #1 is good, then you can easily say that she's not interested. Keep on working on it, keep on trying it out and you'll get it.

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Am not sure if my #1 was good but she finally replied my texts but she wouldn't talk to me cause she's shy,..seems she's just from breaking up with her boyfriend who meant everything to her(that's what she said)so she can't be in any romantic relationship soon,..maybe after sometime,..I don't think if she's woth waiting for,...got to move to the next one

This is something that I have observed about myself,...

I am confident enough to open any HB no matter how hot she is BUT only when I have no intentions of gaming her,..when am truely in need of something,..maybe direction,time,or any other question or opinion on something which I genuinely need to know,..
But when I just have intentions of gaming a HB,...it becomes very hard for me to open her,..I think I need a very small inner game shift and I'll able to open HBs and game them.???

This is straight from Introducing NLP by O'Connor and Seymour (I also think Mystery paraphrases this in the Game).

"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got. If what you are doing is not working, do something else."

Regret is the worst feeling anyone could have, Id rather be kicked in the balls and have my penis used as a candle wick then have the regrets ive had.

You cant change the decisions you've made in the past, but you can do something about it today and tommorow.

remember that next time your 'nervous' to approach, I know I will.

thanks guys,..I'll probably do something about that

Always have something generic that you can open with in the back of your mind.

I sometimes practice coming up with situational openers by thinking of some when I'm stuck in traffic etc.

I have been working on my main sticking point and I can now naturally open any single set in normal situations during day or night,..It's really simple it's just the matter of your state of mind,..I appreciate you guys

if you held eye sontact just motion for her to come over to you if she doesnt say loud enough that she can hear you "girl i know you aint cockin a attitude with me"...

LoL,..That's wats up,i first try to get eye contact,then i open with a simple Hi!..if she responds nicely,i go direct but if she gives me a simple Hi back,i try going indirect to create some attraction