So my girlfriend told me she had dinner plans for saturday with a co-worker and they would probably go to stripclub later that night. I told her ok no problem its not my thing to get jealousy. But today she told me a different story, she is going to dinner with her co-co worker but with her husband and his brother (who is the same age at my girlfriend) and another couple. I thought to my self a triple date? And told her that , and she said, yeah I know i thought myself that and asked if another co - worker would come (I didnt understand if this another co- worker is going but presumably not). So looks to me like a way to match up my girlfriend with the brother of the husband, he even going to giver her a ride since apparently they are neighbours.

First the husband is handsome guy much older than my GF but she told me he is very cute, so I will presume that his brother is also.

Second her co- worker presumably knows she has boyfriend, she told me this because some time ago, she tried to see the availability of my GF since the brother was single. So why still match??

Third Why didnt I get no invite??

Four why go when she knows its a match.

Im really disaponteed and the lack of respect she shown me. What do you guys think?

Tomorrow Im going out, but I would like to know how to behave. And Im also thinking of dumping this girl.

do you trust her? if you dont trust her then fuck her off lol... whats a relationship with no trust???

when im in a relationship... i look at things in the way that... if another bloke is good enough to pick up MY girlfriend... then my hat goes off to him and ill high five him lol... because i think he done a good fucking job! and she doesnt deserve me if she's willing to run off with some other cunt...

so if i were in your position... i'd probably fuck her off... because it sounds like you have a lot of doubt...

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If you don't trust her there's no use in dating her, if she's going to cheat she's going to do it anyway whether you know or not.
I don't see why she would go and date this other guy anyway, when she has a boyfriend already, now that's not cool, especially knowing the guy is her neighbor.
I would not be cool with some guy taking my girlfriend on a date. I think its disrespectful, and I wouldn't let it ride. Knowing her girlfriend is trying to set them up...
Not cool

Your girlfriend is going to dinner with some of her friends from work. . . And you get jealous because YOU didn't get invited? What is your role with HER workplace and HER co-workers? WHY would you wanna get invited in the first place? So you can keep an eye on her?

Do you invite her on every little thing you do with your friends? I hope not.

Let her live her life, you don't need to be a part of everything she does on her free time.

I understand that it's intimidating that they're going to a stripclub (?) and then later on she might get a ride back to her place, because she's neighbors with that guy.

But face it, what is there to be done? Best thing you can do is to stay back and see what happens. Give her the impression that you trust her, and that's it.

Showing any kind of negative reaction to this will only screw things up.

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No my problem was she telling me they were going as couples, and month back her co -worker wanna introduce her to her husband brother so try and match up. She knows for what she going. She even told me she though that was strange. I confront her and we broke up she told me I was always controling her(which is a lie) she even change the story I was joking, afterwards our conversation I thought and it wasnt to match Up. No problem getting invited , but my girlfriend being invited to being match to a guy thats my problem. She then told me he was older and shit but i was mad, so she left my house very mad.

Wait . . . So he asked her out on a date and she accepted? And this was during the time you were in a relationship?

If that's true, I honestly don't know why you want her at all. Highly disrespectful behavior on her part, I wouldn't know why you would like to fix this.

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No, let me try and better my english. her Co-Worker Catherine and her husband invited my GF for dinner, since my Gf told her she didnt have many friends in this new town she is working, so Catherine made this dinner for her and Its going two Couples, who are currently dating and My GF and the brother (who is single). She told me month ago, the Brother was single and Catherine tried to see if my GF was avaiable to meet the handsome brother. My Gf told her she had boyfriend. But today she was invited to this dinner with the two couples plus the single brother. When we were falling asleep she told me she was going with ppl A, B and C. And I asked her it looked like a triple date. And she told me yes at first i thought it was weird and asked if I could bring a female friend, but in the end the female friend isnt going. I was kind shocked because in her mind she knows Catherine is going to try and match her up.Either way its weird no Invite, she told me she didnt like to mix professional with personal which kind is stupid because she only works with one ppl in there so lame excuse. she ussualy go out with her friends I dont bother.

My main concern yesterday she tell me like this" yeah it look like a date I though that was weird" she thinks this is weird but still going. When I confront her today she tells me, its way to her meet new friends, and NOW she doesnt think its weird the single brother is going, yesterday she thought.

This concerns me a little bit . . . Your GF "knows" that Catherine will try to match her up, even though Catherine knows that you two are in a relationship?

Catherine is a nut-case, but let's not get into that.

Point is, all you can do is to take your GF's word for it.

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SHould i go no contact? or should i apologize?

No man . . . Just let her know you trust her and then let her go to her dinner party.

When she gets back, act casual, ask her how it was, and just be a BOYFRIEND.

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I broke up with her and now i go like nothing happen.

Damn son . . .

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She was playing games anyway bro, no worries, these types of girls are easy to come by, live and learn man

So I went and arrange a meeting with my Ex and tried to talk things, she said she was very confused that she loved me, but her words was always " I need more" are you gonna change. And I said no that she should accepted like I am. She said it wasnt enough all time crying said she had to be strong but me and her would survive this phase. After a long talk we made out and hugs. But she said she couldnt live on this way so she left. When she arrived at her house she called me to check up on me.

So what should I do?IS she going to leave me for real?

I thought you said you broke it off . . .

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