Hi people,
I'll explain my situation : I'm a student and there's a girl an exchange student I met a few months ago, we had some classes together and well I was the only one who dared approaching her, unfortunately the classes we had together are few and far between, we also had labs together once again we got along together very well and as of late we've gotten closer and closer, so much that I've been asking her to "wake me up" with
an SMS message every morning and guess what ? She's has done it EVERY SINGLE morning, she's kept her word every time !
10 days ago we went to photocopy some papers and while walking she "accidentaly" hit me with her arm and went on to apologize for a minute, I played laid back, saying "Well you're still alive, don't apologize for yourself".
She also complained to me that during her stay here "I hadn't made any friends !"
Well basically we've exchanged about 50 SMS over the last two weeks, mostly "wake-up calls"..,what I'm asking you people is that, is it the right moment to "ask her out" and
possibly get intimate with her ? I can't bring anyone back to my place...Is she into me?
At least unconsciously ? Or am I a "friend" ?
especially given that she goes back to her country never to get back again in a matter of days, please help me...

Well here are some of the SMS

15/01
Her : Time to wake up !!!

Me : Thank you, I'm up! wake me up again tomorrow !

Her : Nice! Thank you! Ok ill call

16/01
Her :Wake up, time to study!
Thank you for the links you sent me yesterday!

Me : Hi, I'm up I really need to work hard next week.


Her : I really can understand you
I need to study really hard today as well...

18/01

Her : Good morning! Time to wake up!
I didn't see the email yet but thank you for
sending it, it ll be useful !
Now go study
Me : Thank you, after getting your message I still lay for 1/2 hour
on the couch, wake me up tomorrow again.
(I use the word "couch" to make it sexual)

Her : Oh you should get up! Ok ill do it tomorrow again

19/01

Her : How are you ! My oral exam to finite elements method
went fine, i was so nervous !
(notice her punctuation and she talks about her feelings)
the mail you sent me has no attachments, can you send me
again when you can please ?

Me : Yeah I forgot the attachment, I'm sending it again right now.

Her: Thank you!

20/01

Her: Time to wake up and study, it's time...

Me: I'm up thank you, if u got exam tomorrow wake me up when you wake up if you can.
(me building rapport)? I've sent you another e-mail with some more info, look it up.

Her: I don't have exam so i can wake you up at this time again if you want...
Ok thank you... Ill see the course you gave me.

a few SMSs later

24/01

Me : Good luck for the exam, trust your instinct, you can't be wrong.

Her: Thank you for the advice! I'm not with a great faith about fluid mechanics
let's see if my instinct doesn't let me down.


Well people here is a sample of our SMS exchange over the last 2 weeks, add to this
a few e-mails, she's my Ten, really even though she's leaving I must not fall to
one-itis, do you think there is a chance to ask her out ? And how ? I'm thinking
about saying "well exams are over, let's go to the center of town and have a chat,
some stimulating conversation..." Or it would be too obvious ? She seems quite shy but
she smokes a lot, so she must have a wild side no ?
Please help !

Well dude, to be honest with you it doesn't really seem like theres much attraction projected from either of you, which is fine, i've laid many of my female friends without hitting on them until the actual night, but it is something you surely are gonna have to work on.

there is one line that really concerns me though She also complained to me that during her stay here "I hadn't made any friends !" this can become a huge obstacle if you don't work around it early, she hasn't made any friends, except you and she will be scared to compromise your friendship by dating/sleeping with you.

In my experience one of the good ways to work around this type of obstacle is call up a few friends (male and female, but let the males be close friends) and get them mixed with her at a social event, make sure you've made it clear to your male friends that your one-itis is OFF LIMITS and tadaa, you've got social prove, if she ask's your female friends about you and they give her positive responses that is also good, she'll feel like she isn't all out of friends, and this will decrease her anxiety, and the best part by telling her that you're going out with some friends and she can come along, you're validating the question and thus increasing the success chance of her going along and you're getting a sneaky date.

from there you need to built up some attraction though.
and remember it wont eliminate her fear of loosing friendship if she dates you, because naturally they're your friends and will stick to you if things end up bad.

Good luck mate

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"seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".
-Waiter Rant

You're inexperienced with making things sexual, the word "couch" isn't necessarily sexual, nor is the way you used it. A recent example of how I suggested something sexual is a woman took my chips while I was away from my desk at work (and this is at work so I be as naughty as possible without actualy saying anything obvious) she said it was better that she took them without asking, because it adds that naughtiness factor, and I paused with a cheeky look, like I was thinking of something good, so they would wonder what I was about to say, then I got up and while walking to the chips (to make sure I had their attention) I said "...naughtiness makes EVERYTHING better..." with a knowing grin. And one woman said "yes... Yes it does..." as if she knew what I was talking about.

Anyway that is just a little example, not for you to follow but just to give you an idea of what's possible. A lot of the time (for me anyway) I'm playing with words that were just said. But what you should do is experiment (not with her, she leaves soon) whenever the opportunity arises and test what is too subtle and what is too extreme, based off the reactions you're getting.

With her, she's really in to you, not saying she wants to rip your clothes off, but see being very compliant, so you won't have to think of any reason too elaborate to hang out with her and then a reason for her to come over, and then a reason for her to stay late. Key is making her comfortable by asking "what time do you have to be back" when it's getting late, and if she says something like "oh I don't have exams in the morning so it doesn't matter" it means she's enjoying it so much she wants to stay as long as possible. Watch a DVD, that is a good excuse to stay late and a good excuse to put your arm around her, as if that's just what you fo when you watch a DVD.

Thank you very much people actually yesterday she agreed to go out, and even
texted me asking where I were...
I'm the one who flaked out, had no car, and no cash...so didn't go...
But we are probably going out tonight again in the center of town and I'll bring a couple
of male friends including one that is quite good with women.
We'll see if she comes, and you're right she's very compliant, that's the word !
Please, make it work...
Unfortunately I can't bring anyone to my place...I'll try some kino tonight and try to make her jealous by opening other girls.
Please, make it work...

She's just answered :

Her: Hello! Im at an erasmus dinner but maybe after ill go to the center, keep in touch!

Let's hope she comes, so far she's been very compliant and kept her word every single
time, God, Spirits make it work...let's hope the dinner doesn't make her forget me...
I feel she'll come.