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PostPosted: Thu Jan 27, 2011 10:17 am 
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OK so last night, the strangest thing happened...a HB9, very naturally pretty, petite loves to kick box, 29, IT project manager like me, very girly but blokey and down to earth (she watches porn ALL the time!), a girl I met at the very start of Jan, ANYWAYS, we hooked up a few times that week into the next week...made a real and deep connection, then she said she wasn't attracted to me (like apparently she is with every guy she meets) and LJBF'd me!! however she still wanted to date me, we were always kissing and all over each other...but I said to her "look I'm not having this, you're giving me all of the signals like you want me but then you come out with that, no-way...I'm cancelling the date on Friday" she was gutted but I just ignored her since like the second week of Jan...

SOOO...last night, just as i'm heading down the gym she txts me...

HB9: "Hey shit head, only me, i'm a bit pissed, been on it since 1.30 and don't wanna stop but my mates went home at 5...I haven't got work tomorrow! Don't suppose you're bored too x

ME: "Yeah I'll come out to play, I'll be an hour or so x"

HB9: "Yeah cool, come get me whenever you're ready x

ME: I'm back, just gotta have a shower x

HB9: Come onnnn, you can't smell that bad :p

Right so I meet up with her, as soon as I enter her apartment she wraps her arms around me and tells me to give her a squeeze, we have a little moment...eye fuck each other then kiss for a bit, usual ass grabbing "ooo i can see you still like my bum" etc...

So we head into town and go to spoons for a sit down and a chat, we are still cuddling, she's telling about dudes she's been going on dates with, their weak game, stalkerish texts etc, we go over some of the other shit that's been happening with her, i give advice (it's easy as we do the same job!) she tells me how I'm the only person out of everyone she knows (Friends and Fam) who understands her, that she can open up to...she has a go about me ditching her and swerving her, I deflect all of the shit and she's like "dont you want to be my friend?" "we can be each others wingmen!" stuff like that.

So we go back to hers and it gets all kissy kissy again, constantly eye fucking each other...she does a little strip tease and then she's like "but you're not touching" "i'm terrible for teasing you" at this point i grab her by the hips, walk her into the bedroom and throw her on the bed, I rub on her pussy, suck on her tits...she grinds me (with her jeans now back on) and she's like "noooo, we can't cross the line" i'm like "no of course we can't" I roll her over and grab her hand and put it on my cock through my jeans while she's kissing me I unbutton my pants and put it in her hands...now she's actually playing with my cock "I know what you want but we shouldn't do this"...I'm "yes you should...dooo it, show me what you got!"

She then proceeded to suck the absolute shit out of me for like 20mins or so, like an absolute porn star...deep throat, no gag reflex, she did it with an enthusiasm rarely seen amongst really hot women and made noises like she hadn't eaten for a month, I blew my load, she didn't leave any mess... then she confessed "I haven't done that for about a year" to which i replied "that's a crime against humanity, you should get locked up for keeping that from us"...we cuddled, she fell asleep then I left as I had work early the next day and she was off so I didn't want to wake her early...

What the fuck is going on?! L...J...B...F?!?! How should i play it?!

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LJBF is no more. Maybe friends with benefits, and this should suit you down to the ground, by what you said about her.


If I were you now, wait for her to interact, text you etc. She's the one who originaly LJBF you, so see what she thinks now. She did it because she wanted to, no other reason. You increased the tension, I loved that.

I reckon a good fuck is on the cards. Usually if a girl sucks good, she fucks well too.

Wait for her to ignite communication. She's the one again, who LJBF you, this will get her thinking!

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Agree with Chelios about the friends w benefits / fuckbuddy part. It's likely on the cards.

However, she's just acting in a beneficial way towards you. The appropriate response is not to ignore her (negative reinforcement) but to engage with her (positive reinforcement)

Send her a text saying how much fun you had, plus some inside joke about something random you guys have. THEN leave it a while.

Keep things casual, don't text her too much or be too available, but do try and get her one-on-one or in a situation amongst friends where you have a chance to isolate and escalate a bit. Keep building that sexual tension, but rather than pushing the whole time, play a bit of push-pull with her so she really WANTS it.

You're doing fine!

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Chel & Blondguy, thanks for the wisdom!

So i have contradictory advice now, I would have played it to ignore her - negative re-inforcement.

She mentioned yesterday that she is going to dress up for me today and take a picture and send it to me.

the reason I'm thinking negative re-inforcement is she was going on about the stalkers etc

Should I wait for the txt OR let her know how much fun I had last night then wait?

I think FB's is on the cards too...she call's it "friends" though and apparently I mis-understood her when she said said LJBF


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Chel & Blondguy, thanks for the wisdom!

So i have contradictory advice now, I would have played it to ignore her - negative re-inforcement.

She mentioned yesterday that she is going to dress up for me today and take a picture and send it to me.

the reason I'm thinking negative re-inforcement is she was going on about the stalkers etc

Should I wait for the txt OR let her know how much fun I had last night then wait?

I think FB's is on the cards too...she call's it "friends" though and apparently I mis-understood her when she said said LJBF
Nah mate, wait for her to text, if it's a misunderstanding she will be in touch anyway.

All about what you fancy doing, gut insticnt? You have other options too, so place little empthasis on this!

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Nah mate, wait for her to text, if it's a misunderstanding she will be in touch anyway.

All about what you fancy doing, gut insticnt? You have other options too, so place little empthasis on this!
Yeah I'll wait for her, if she questions it I'll just say i'm waiting for this picture she promised, build up the sexual thing again :)


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Nah mate, wait for her to text, if it's a misunderstanding she will be in touch anyway.

All about what you fancy doing, gut insticnt? You have other options too, so place little empthasis on this!
Yeah I'll wait for her, if she questions it I'll just say i'm waiting for this picture she promised, build up the sexual thing again :)
Or put it differently, "Not good at keeping promises huh?" Then mention the picture in a jokey manor :D.

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Nah mate, wait for her to text, if it's a misunderstanding she will be in touch anyway.

All about what you fancy doing, gut insticnt? You have other options too, so place little empthasis on this!
Yeah I'll wait for her, if she questions it I'll just say i'm waiting for this picture she promised, build up the sexual thing again :)
Or put it differently, "Not good at keeping promises huh?" Then mention the picture in a jokey manor :D.
Mate I have just stolen that line and locked it into memory waiting to reply to her!!


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Brilliant. I think I've learned something hahaha.

+1 to friends with benefits. If she wants to take it exclusive, let her bring that up... otherwise keep it chill and you'll have a bunch a fun with very few strings attached.

In the meantime, keep gaming. It wouldn't be that inconceivable to have several FWB girls calling you to come over once in a while. 8)

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Yeah I'll wait for her, if she questions it I'll just say i'm waiting for this picture she promised, build up the sexual thing again :)
Or put it differently, "Not good at keeping promises huh?" Then mention the picture in a jokey manor :D.
Mate I have just stolen that line and locked it into memory waiting to reply to her!!
Haha no worries. You've helped me enough mate.

Let me know how it progresses, she will text by tomorrow, mark my words.

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Mate I have just stolen that line and locked it into memory waiting to reply to her!!
Haha no worries. You've helped me enough mate.

Let me know how it progresses, she will text by tomorrow, mark my words.[/quote]

Haha what a cow! texting me to apologise about the mess she was in last night, when she wasn't even a mess...she was completely fine and even commented on how sober she felt by the time we got home

Tried that line mate, she blamed the drink for promising to send me that picture too!

I was like "hahaha, damn that drink, i didn't enjoy your company at all! Shame on you x"


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Mate I have just stolen that line and locked it into memory waiting to reply to her!!
Haha no worries. You've helped me enough mate.

Let me know how it progresses, she will text by tomorrow, mark my words.
Haha what a cow! texting me to apologise about the mess she was in last night, when she wasn't even a mess...she was completely fine and even commented on how sober she felt by the time we got home

Tried that line mate, she blamed the drink for promising to send me that picture too!

I was like "hahaha, damn that drink, i didn't enjoy your company at all! Shame on you x"[/quote]

Haha did she reply to that.

I would have said " Yeh yeah of course, blame the drink, don't blame yourself ;) for actually wanting it"

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Haha did she reply to that.

I would have said " Yeh yeah of course, blame the drink, don't blame yourself ;) for actually wanting it"
Nothing yet, I'm on a couple of other chicks at the moment, just my ex that i'm sorta still banging and the HB9 I'm seeing next tuesday


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Haha did she reply to that.

I would have said " Yeh yeah of course, blame the drink, don't blame yourself ;) for actually wanting it"
Nothing yet, I'm on a couple of other chicks at the moment, just my ex that i'm sorta still banging and the HB9 I'm seeing next tuesday
Fuck it then, doing right man! Watch out though, she will contact!

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Haha did she reply to that.

I would have said " Yeh yeah of course, blame the drink, don't blame yourself ;) for actually wanting it"
Nothing yet, I'm on a couple of other chicks at the moment, just my ex that i'm sorta still banging and the HB9 I'm seeing next tuesday
Fuck it then, doing right man! Watch out though, she will contact!
I hope not, a girl with crazy head game like that will give me oneitus!!


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