Hi friends,

I have gone out twice with an HB8 (lives with her parents has a kid, she is about 30). I have known her for probably a year and a half but back then I was married. So no I am not.

We have not gone on dates. I have simply spontaneoulsy texted her letting her know where I was going to meet up other friends and she has joined spontaneously. This I have done twice. We have had a good time, didn't feel like a date. Last outing was this past Friday. She he has texted me the next day on both ocassions thanking me and saying she had a good time. Latest contact was 4 days later this week, making a comment on my new profile picture on FB.

My overall rapport with her since I have met her has been one plenty of C&F, including light sexual C&F which she always laughs at. On the second date I made plenty of jokes: "Did you bring your pijamas?" "Your place or my place?"-----probably more kiss closing should have been in order, but I still have my AFC moments so I didnt make any moves.

So, should I invite her again to another group outing and make a move?

Should I not invite her and see what she does?

Thank you

Reflex

Caveman her. Stop stalling. How do you expect to get laid with these pondering thoughts?

Cave man means up the intent. Don't want you ending up on a rape charge. If she isn't into it then you will know. Just grow some balls and go for it before someone else does.

Just don't keep going slow with things. That's all. Stop thinking. She might like you and want to you to make a move. Make your move and you will know. Stall further and she will get turned off. Trust me i do know what i am talking about.

Invite her round. Offer to cook her spaghetti carbonara. It Will knock her socks off. Then make a move. I am giving you gold here matey. I should really be charging you for this.

Invite her round. Offer to cook her spaghetti carbonara. It Will knock her socks off. Then make a move. I am giving you gold here matey. I should really be charging you for this.