If you are too lazy to read everything the last paragraph is the important one, the rest is background information.

Quick story. Went out to a bar last night with 2 AFC friends. Opened a bunch of girls, a few sets moved on but eventually a 3 set stayed, luckily they were hot. It consisted of 2 HB7s and a HB9. The 9 was my target obviousely. Here is what I did;

Opened one of the 7s and imediately started conversation with her, she seemed interested straight up so I talked for a while. The conversation moved around quite a bit and all three girls talked to me sooner or later. I even made friends with 2 of their male friends who came up to us eventually. The 9 kept moving away so I kept talking and figured I would take one of the 7s if my plan for the 9 didnt work out. Unfortunatelly, my AFC friends kept getting in the way and one of the hooked up with one of the 7s too so she was out of the picture. Finally I moved into a position where I could Isolate and I did. We ended up having a deep conversation and I cold read both her and some other people as I am really good at this. When she asked how I did it and to tell her what I think of her she was speechless and simply replied "omg, no one has ever said stff like that about me before. You are totally right".

When i took her to the dancefloor she just kissed me. We made out outside for a while because I took her there with both of my AFC friends were doing the same with her 2 friends. Eventually the girls got a taxi but here is how my last conversation with the HB went;
ME: come here
HB: why?
ME: (grab her hand) just come I want to talk to you
HB: (just follows along)
ME: (around the corner) Here is the thing. I dont normally do this with girls that I just met in a club but you are different for some reason. There is something about you. So, if you want you should give me your number so I can call you again.
HB: What will you do if I dont?
ME: (perfectly calm) nothing, I will get in that taxi and forget about you. But, like I said I do want to see you again so will you give me the number or not?
HB: Where is your phone?
ME: (Hand her phone)
HB: (types in name and number) Will you prank me?
ME: Ill text you my full name since you probably cant spell it
HB: so, are you gonna text or call me?
ME: personally Im a text person but what do you prefer?
HB: I prefer calls
ME: good, ill text you then... actually... you can text me
HB: haha, no way im the girl
ME: so? you can call me, otherwise I might never call you and we'll never see each other again
HB: You should call me, I like being chased
ME: I like being chased too, so what are we gonna do about it?
HB: you are the guy. besides I made the first move
ME: what? As if
HB: yeah, I kissed you, you were just standing there and I just did it
ME: so you clearly like me then, might as well call me
HB: nah, you were just going like bla bla bla and I got bored so I just did it...
ME: ok we'll see
HB: so are you gonna call me tomorrow or is there like a guy 3 day rule or something?
ME: I already told you, your calling me
HB: I dont think so
ME: ok, we'll see what happens then
HB: ok
Ok, so question is should I call her? Im thinking if she doesnt call in 3 days (and I dont think she will as she is a girl) ill send her a text since I got nothing to lose. So what do I text her? Anyone good at this? Should I send something random or actually invite her out? I was thinking something along the lines of "I know u had ur heart set on me calling you but a text seems like a fair compromise. Going out (or something) tonight, you should join."

Stop pissing about, the answer is obvious. Get her on the phone and do the cube. Gets more comfort. Then your laughing.

man how is doing the cube over the phone the most obvious answer? Besides, I dont know how to do the cube and I dont think im gonna learn in 2 days and if I was gonna do it I would prob do it after I organize to see her again. So question is, how to I get her out to see me again?

Just tell her where you will be. There has got to be a routine to ask her out. Use that. Then when you see her in the bar just keep the chat behind the back. Run a few routines. Bingo.

Yeh, thats what I normally do but Ive moved back into a big city like a week ago and she is the first girl I picked up here. Problem here is that everything is far away so you cant really do bar hopping, she would need to plan to go to the same place as me like half a day in advance and somehow I dont think she is willing to tell her friends "lets go to this place I dont know so I can meet a guy I barely know".

Is there a routine or specific attitude I can take to ask where she will be so I can actually plan to be there? Or is there a way to make interested enough to make her come where I am?

Update here; I texted her THREE times so I dont know if should bother continuing. The melbourne lair guy thought she was interested after the first 2 time and now arent replying anymore; Anyway here it is...

I met her one TUES, so on the FRI following;

ME: So I know you had your heart set on me calling you but I think text is a fair compromise. Ill be hanging around st kilda and the city (places in melb) tonight, we should meet up

HB: haha so disappointing :p Im not heading out tonight though, go work early tomorrow. decided where you're going?

ME: pfft, who works on sat morning? Like I said ill prob be in st kilda since I dont know what else is good on a friday. What time is work?

HB: Yeh the saint isnt too bad on a fri! Lol I work all weekend its pretty lame... I start at 9 tomorrow so I prob wont bother going out tonight. Have fun!

TUES;

ME: How was working all weekend? I had fun going out a few times, Im sure your weekend was equally as exciting...:p

HB: Haha wasn't bad, had a 21st at baroq on sat and went to alumbra (clubs btw) for a bit after which was good besides a 10 hour shift sunday lol... where'd you end up going to?

ME: Haha sounds fun. Like I said Friday was st kilda, I know a cool bar I forgot the name of, sat was city and last night was my cousins 21st so we got him wasted, I was designated driver tho , wat u up to?

HB: Aw being designated driver is the worst! I'm just at home, have work at 4 cbffff so over working lol wat u up to?

ME: Wow u sure do work a lot was gonna hit up the beach but now is cloudy, my friends are getting kinda iffy. Where do you work? lemme guess some kinda hospitality

HB: Haha why hospitality? I work at a call centre and safeway lol trying to save as much as possible for europe where do u work?

ME: Haha check out chick. I dont work cuz I got back from studying in america like 2 weeks, Im looking tho, prob be a waiter again. So listen, Im going out a lot this week, prob hitting up hawthorn (bar/lounge) tomorrow, u should join.

HB: Oh yeh fair enough! Im not sure if we're going out tomorrow coz we're all working, may be there next week, Ill let u know if we end up coming tomorrow

ME: haha well maybe I wont invite you next week...:p are there any day when you dont work?

HB: I finish most days by 8, so far I only have thurs off but most of the time they call and ask if I wanna work haha so never really know! Im jealous of u i wanna ave no job

ME: Damn u arent making it easy for me r u? Ur lucky im such a patient guy! Ok well like I said I do something most nites so there is a good chance ill be out Thu, if they call you to work u can always cancel and 8 is still early enough to get out and have fun so u have no excuse. Its tomoz or thu, ur choice

HB: Well arent you gonna be out tomorrow? My friends arent gonna go out and Im not coming alone haha so maybe thurs

ME: Huh? yeah ill be out tomorrow... and u wouldnt be by urself, u know me but I cant make you if you dont want to so you let me know

HB: Yeh I dont think ill come out by myself lol feel too weird, let me know later what ur up to on thurs!

so on THURS;

ME: U sick of working yet? I bet youd rather be hanging out with me

HB: Haha im not at work for once! first day off in so long How was hawthorne the other night?

ME: Yay freedom!! Wat r u gonna do with it? here is what I have in mind; my friends might be going to eve (club) tonight but Id much rather get a quite drink, I know a really chill bar, u in? btw, nevermind was ok, last week was a lot more exciting tho

HB: Haha last week was good fun!! Im at my cousins place at the moment and I have a birthday at the wheelers (pub) that im meant to be going to with them later. Where is this chill bar haha

ME: lol the wheelers, I actually know a few. One in the glen and a few in st kilda (places in melb)

HB: (an hour later) Im not sure whats going on yet ill keep ya posted are you planning on going to eve later?

ME: Im not 100% sure either, my friends are throwing the word eve around a lot today but no definite plans yet, hence why im thinking quite bar, feel like pre drinks? Im thinking glen and taking the night from there :p

HB: How am I meant to drive to the glen and then drink haha!! How am i gonna get home or to the wheelers if i come lol. I have no idea whats going on SPAM no one knows

ME: (this was with the advice of others) ok so come meet me at the glen, im driving so ill giv u a ride home at the very least. or if you promise not to snore ill let u sleep on my couch :p

HB: And then what do I do with my car lol! I think im gonna go to 161 (a club/bar) now with some people so let me know where you end up!

ME: (like 2 hours later) Hey im on chapel, is 161 is bangin?

HB: Im in bed watching dvds haha such a grandma! was gonna go to the wheelers but everyone bailed last min, have a good night! x


I nearly throw my phone at the wall when this happened, I know too emotional right? I was pissed cuz I went out specifically cuz I wanted to meet her. I actually had to drag one of my friends out of the house to come with me, which means he is less likely to come next time I need him.

Basically, what to do now? call it a loss and leave it or have another go and in how long?