Hey guys! Thought I'd leave a lay report!

So I met this girl called Abby recently. HB8, about 5'9, dark brown shoulder length hair, excellent pole dancer. We were at a party and within about 20 minutes of solid game I had got her number and kiss closed. I was so pleased with myself. We started texting each other on Wednesday (usual fluff talk, nothing too exciting) and I thought I would just dive in and invited her round to 'watch movies'

(I would like to mention that I've found that women are usually looking for a spontaneous, no nonsense kinda guy, So if in doubt I just go for it. The outcome is usually a positive one!)

20 minutes later and she's at my door, looking amazing! I couldn't believe my luck.

I've always done the same kind of routine in this situation and it never seems to let me down! I get her a drink, go into the living room and put on a movie. As we all know girls are indecisive creatures so I always suggest to watch 'The Notebook' (Almost every girl in the world LOVES this film, always a winner) And I had noticed she had sat on a different couch, making it pretty hard to kino-escalate or get very close at all, my first obstacle!

As we started talking and watching the film she mentioned a photo on her phone, I jumped out of my seat and moved over to her to see it, this way it wasn't obvious that I was trying to get close to her. I sat down next to her and carried on the conversation, I mentioned to her small hands so she would put them up against mine, initiating the kino! after a few minutes of playing with each others hands I asked her if she lived in the moment - she said yes. I asked her if she is spontaneous - she said yes. I then asked her if she was a good kisser and she said she wasn't sure, I suggested that we should find out and the rest is history


FINAL THOUGHT!
It took quite a while to get to this point, and there were a few 'awkward silences' which I find hard to get past, Its mainly getting the conversation from completely innocent to seductive that I find the hardest challenge.


ANY COMMENTS AND SUGGESTIONS ARE MUCH APPRECIATED!

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Congrats on the lay!

If I watched the notebook and didnt get laid, I'd probably kill myself. That movie is painful to watch.

Just out of curiosity... how many times have you seen "The Notebook"? lol

aren't you sick of it by now..?

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Lol at that ^^^. I have only comment. What do you guys think of actually watching the notebook? Just as we know that EVERY girl loves this movie they know that pretty much every guy hates it. Personally, the only reason I managed to sit through one watching is because Rachel McAdams is hot. What im getting at is that they might catch on and realize you are only watching it to please her. Why not watch a romantic comedy that you actually find funny as well? or just go straight up comedy, I got laid to "get him to the greek" 3 weeks ago.

comment: anyone ever tell the person who started this thread that they look like the lead singer of -la roux?

joking aside... why dont you try embracing those awkward moments? build up sexual tension by letting it be. If theres an awkward pause... let her be the one to break it. or kiss her. pick one...

Andy. Is that pic of yours of John Ritter?

Cool LR. I like being direct like that, and I was using the same MO for a while:

Meet girl at party, and one or two days later invite her over. Very simple.

I find the sexual switch (the phase shift as vets would call it) to be my favorite part of the seduction.

It's almost no-fail if you switch YOUR energy to sexual first, and continue there til she reciprocates.

I love it. Nice post!

actually I kinda liked The Notebook (call me a wuss its okay, i can take it) but seriously that movie gets boring so quickly when you've already watched once or twice, instead next time try Queen of the damned:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0238546/

I swear that movie is great for setting some sexual tension!

or if you're looking for something more in the line of the notebook, try patch adams with robbin williams:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0129290/

not a romantic movie, but one that manage to be fun and loveable, though its serious

or a beautiful mind:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0268978/

also a great movie - enjoy variety !

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Dude I'm giving you a round of applause. You deserve it, bravo.

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Thanks for all the comments on this post guys, It was one of my first so I was a little nervous.


@DA - I'll check that out, thanks man!

@Coldman - Probably a few too many times now, I've realised over the years that films with a HEAVY amount of romance or sex will influence people subconciously, I mean who hasn't watched a Rocky movie and wanted to go work out or something! So i've been playing with that idea recently, which helps spice up a lot of the really mundane rom-coms!

@Andy Nice - hahaha la roux! good point! I've had a bit of a hairstyle change since then luckily, that's a very good point acutally, I seem to try and mumble through the awkward moments in life but it seems that when there's tension with a girl it can (and most of the time will be) sexual tension without me realising!

@Mattdub1 - I love the more direct approaches, because then it almost feels like you have more material to play with because you haven't had to stress all your mid-game beforehand. Thanks man!

@D.O.S - thanks for the links bro, I'll definitely have some fun with these!

@Confidence - Thankyou bro! I've just came out of a year long relationship so I'm very keen to get my edge back, watch this space!

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