so i'd met this girl before a couple of times, but hadn't seen her for a few months, but we would text each other fairly frequently so there was definitely attraction there. anyway last night after getting some drinks with some other mates i went and met her at a club she was already at. she was pretty drunk and did most of the hitting on me and within about ~45 mins the deal was done

so anyway, we went back to mine, and made out several times throughout the night/morning. it wasn't a typical dodgy ONS, i think partly cos we already knew each other, and so she was very affectionate and constantly snuggling up to me in bed until around 11am when she had to leave.

left her with a good impression as she said she needed to get off, and I convinced her for 10 more mins in bed, i then fingered her to climax in that time, which I think was her 4th of the night.

so basically the question is where do I go for here? i don't really want to form a relationship, but I do want to meet up with her again maybe later this week to have sex when we are both not so drunk. she's a horny girl, was as wet as anything last night, and I wanna take advantage without her thinking i'm after just more sex.

I don't really know where I stand with her, so i don't really know what to text her. i was thinking something just like "are you ready for round 2 yet? how about 1 evening this week?" (would obviously wait a couple of days before sending that)

so any tips pls would be much appreciated..

thx

You'd better not call her or text her. Show no interest in her. Believe me, because I had the same thing happened to me and I actually called her in 2 days, which was wrong and we ended here. She will be pissed of that you don't call her and she will make the move. She will be the one that will come to you. You should act like she is not the only one and you don't care that much.

Yeah i had the same problem after i bedded a girl too. Check out my post, "how can i recover and bring back intimacy. Need help."

I agree.. Dont call her, let her call you.. if it isnt someone you want to form a relationship with, and only be fuckbuddies, take distance, yea?

Let her take the enxt step!

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As someone with currently 2 fuckbuddies, I disagree with the responses.

The two main points are;

you have to have some discussions through friendly chit chat that let you both know where you stand with each other. If both of you end up saying to each other "yeah I love being single, not looking for a relationship" then that's good

Secondly they need to still feel like a person, all the things that make a relationship girl happy. Friendly talks, hanging out occasionally doing something else that isn't sex, being attentive in bed, etc.


But the key is to first get the vibe that you both like sex, no strings attached, so why shouldn't a hot girl hook up with a hot guy for the hell of it, etc. An it's all cool and casual, you're not fussed either way. Once things feel like that, then start planning the next steps, it'll make more sense.