I am very confused. Basically I kinda knew this girl through school and we have mutual friends and just recently we hooked up-just making out but she slept over. We were really drunk but she kept telling me that (in her wasted state) she thought I was really hot and the funniest person she knew. The next weekend we hooked up at a danceclub again, but she was completely different. She said later that night that she did not wanna hook up going into that night because she didn't know if she liked me or not. What is going on here? I am very confused and a little hurt because I like this girl quite a bit. Does anyone have any insight into what is happening here? One night she was so nice but after the initial hookup something kinda changed. Thanks comments would be greatly appreciated.

Dude this happened to me last weekend. A girl I knew was ALL over me and we made out, next week she didn't reply to any texts.

I think it's buyer's remorse. Not enough comfort or something that's making her rethink what happened

She thinks she's a ho. I have no idea what one does about that. "No baby you not a ho! now spread those ass cheeks a little wider...." Hmm, Frank Zappa wrote a song about this many years ago, called "I Have Been In You."


And while
I was inside
I may have been
Undignified
And that is maybe
Why you cried
I don't know
Maybe so
But what's the difference now!

yea the first time we hooked up she texted me the next morning and said she felt bad for how trashed/slutty was. She hasn't been the same ever since, but I did hook up with her this past weekend as I was saying. Apart from when she's drunk, she is cold and distant. Any way to remedy I really like this girl.

This is exactly why I always get another lay in the morning. Well not only But at that point you know that she would do sober what she did drunk. She makes a sober judgment, and it makes her feel sexy when she least feels like it. No buyer's remorse. But I digress...

I think one of two things is going on. Either, she feels like a slut, in which case you should ask her to hang in a "non-threatening" environment during the day, e.g. get a coffee. Or, she may want more from you than a random hookup, in which case you're good since you like her. Recipe in this case, get her to come out during the day in a "non-threatening" environment, e.g. get a coffee. My point is, deescalate and be honest. You can still run your game, since that's what hooked her in the first place, but throw her a bone here or there and build comfort.

That is great advice. Thanks everyone for helping with my problem. The complicating factor is that I am extremely busy with work and our schedules do not line up. I just want to keep her interest until things get less busy. Text-wise she seems distant and short. How should I go about texts? Should I put myself out there as friendly or maintain a distance myself. I am scared that I will lose her in the next few weeks.