ok go a few things i need to type up

i edited text convo with the HB6 girl from the FAC-51, its turned into a solid number, and she wants to meet me this Saturday

Lith girl HB9 -its a solid number but shes a very busy girl , probably has lots of guys interested in her since she is a HB9 and all, she asked to meet up with me in the past, and keeps cancelling at the last minute, she has cancelled 3 times total with me and im losing value in the texts eveytime she cancels on me

to make things worse, she is doing night shifts so she is even harder to text, i was thinking about taking a risk with her....., here is the text convo (i have the start of the convo in my older posts if you want to see it all...

but this is this todays text convo...



me-your impossible to contact now!...lets grab a private drink this weekend, type "1" for "yes" and "2" for "definetly"

her-"morning ....just woke up 2 xx

me-haha morning...night shifts suck! , what time is best for you...Saturday? x

her-it doesnt lol i like it very much yeah Sat will be fine x

me- X bar, x location...8pm good for you? x

her- think so... x

me-ok coolio, try not to embarrass me x

her-what???lol what do you mean??? :p x

(damn language barriers makes text harder, she doesnt get the joke)

me-whan we have a drink in the bar, dont do anything weird to embarrass me , people might see...*jokes* :p

her-haha ok xxx

me-i have something fun to show you, that you are going to love x

( baiting her with intrigue)

her- good good cant wait for Saturday!!!X



this look like a good meetup...however...when it comes to the day she usually flakes...so what im going to do is perhaps flake her 1st! ...to stand out. She probably has guys that will meet her at the drop of a hat, but this one guy called Pebble cancels on her! who is this guy! what the hell! he must have options!...?

Brad P has something similar on the "slow track"- basically its to create barriers for girls , he keeps flaking them , then when he is in town , he will meet them and they are super keen and super charged to sleep with him since he is this busy guy that cancels on these hot chicks all the time...its genius...tends to work on the hotter girls since these girls dont get flaked on often...so they are faster to get in the sack

this might be a risk... , since id say its 50/50 whether i meet Lith girl this Saturday, but perhaps i have to make that risk to get the girl...?....isnt this game....? what do you guys think i should do? opinions appreciated!...please dont just read..please post

p.s. the HB6 wants to meet me this Saturday also, and im confident it will be a lay, i dont want to cancel on her then the 50/50 Lith girl flakes me and make me look even more stupid!.... then the HB6 makes other plans!

thanx guys

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From the text conversation, it definitely looks like she's going to flake. She already said "think so" when you set a time. That's a bad sign.

Flaking out on her sounds good on paper. Here's why it's not. You are a man. Your word is supposed to be rock solid, if you say you're going to be somewhere, you damn well better be there or call at least 3 hours in advance to say why you're not. She is a girl. The SECOND a guy shows even a little disinterest she will flip the switch off and give up on him because she doesn't have the confidence to plow through. Flaky girls might drive us crazy, but a flaky guy probably totally turns a girl off. I really doubt flaking on a girl when she's hot and heavy works on any level, since she can EASILY call a back up and get off anyway. Don't fall for marketing bullshit.

You should call this girl in advance to confirm and if she doesn't reply, is hemming and hawing, just tell her you're going to make other plans because you don't want to end up waiting by the phone for her all night and call in your backup. Otherwise you can flake and let us know how that works out for you.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Thanx for the input

What I meant by flaking her as in tell her the night before that I can't make it

I didn't mean get her to meet up, then flake if she goes there

Like you said I think she will cancel so perhaps I need beat her to it an call her the week after

This girl isn't your typical flaker , I've been flaked so much in my life to know this, she has interest but she just is a busy girl

Il do my best and let ya know

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