Alright guys, looking to hear your thoughts. My sister set me up with this girl. Our groups of friends went out, we met and things went well, got her number. Went on a first and it was just OK. I think it was hard since I didn't have the best opportunity to chat her up when we first met so it was essentially a blind date. And it was during the day.

I guess it went better than I thought, so we went out to dinner for our second date. Things went much better, she said to meet up with her at the bars the upcoming friday. My friends and I met up with her and her friends Friday, and I thought it was a great time. My friends both commented to me saying its obvious she likes you from their prospectives.

That being said, I call her on Sunday at like 8:30pm. She claims she is in bed and hungover and she will call me on Monday. She didn't call. I texted her Tuesday afternoon asking her to the Blackhawks (NHL hockey) game on Wednesday. She claims she really wants to go but is sick and wants to hang out later in the week. Not really sure what to think about that.

Now this Friday my roommate and I meet up at the bars with her friends. I got the feeling she wasn't that intersted, but my roommate said he thought it went well. So basically I'm confused and just looking for advice on how to work this. Feel free to ask questions as I may have left out some detail. Thinking about doing a 2 day freeze out. What do you all think?

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-Maj

well i usually tell people that the first important thing to do when doing game is to create 'impact', grab the full attention of your target by building attraction using many techniques e.g. push pull technique, negging, validation etc as well as building rapport (emotional connection). but it does happen in certain social settings that it is hard to isolate one's target. also the way that you arranged the dates, the way to do it is by 'offering' not asking permission, never ask.

dont be in the position to be waiting for a girl to call you, women are lazy or busy but definitely unreliable. you make the contact. but when u contact, dont sound like you are too eager to see her, bad sign to show that ur desperate. in between texting a girl, act like u dont care if she ever replies back. i know it sounds crazy, but it does not feel good waiting, checking ur phone every so often seeing if the girl replies. have the frame of mind that u dont care about a reply, then u will feel less anxious, and more focused on ur game.

but it is hard to know whether things are going well with a girl in a situation. so ask you roommates to look at you from time to time and give you feed back from an external vantage, always useful. but dont listen to every they say, still use ur senses.

go ahead with the 2 day freeze out, very unpredictable to her and she'll wonder whats happening and maybe there;s a chance she'll contact u.

perhaps in the next meeting at a bar or club with everyone including your target, focus your attention on one of the other girls in the group and gain attraction from her and completely ignore ur target. from doing this, ur target will get very jealous because she was used to all of your attention from before and that you have shown disinterest in her and now have focused on someone else. therefore if she is interested in you she will make her move on you and try to gain ur approval of her and win you back. then she'll try to signal to the other girls in competition that you belong to her. the bottom line is people do not realize what they have until they begin to lose it.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

good one