| This is a great way to escalate a bit once you've isolated. After you learn a bit about her and she's been talking for a while.
Wait for a point when she plays with her hair or talks with her hands in some way.
Me: "You talk with your hands quite a bit"
Her: "haha do i?"
Me: "Yes. It's amazing, but hands tell you a lot about someone. Here, hold out your hand"
*she holds out hand*
Flip it so the palm is up.
Me: "If you ever go to a Salon or spa, most legit places offer a hand massage, right?"
Her: "Right"
At this point, she's expecting you to start giving her a hand massage. Don't.
Me: "It comes from far eastern countries, from accupuncture. Different places on your hands open up different places all over your body." (Obviously, don't try this on an Asian girl. American girls it works better on.)
Start gently massaging her fingertips and work lower, toward her wrist
Me: "Fingertips usually open up your more delicate features - face, eyes, lips. Closer to your palm is your core. When you get a hand massage at the spa all that tension in your shoulders and neck seem to disappear."
Her: "omg yes." (Even if she has never been to a nice spa she will agree with this because thats what Cosmo tells her.)
Me: "And every deeper portion of your hand opens up a lower, deeper level of your body. Face, shoulders, chest, waist"
By the time you get to the word "waist" you should be lightly massaging the base of her hand, near her wrist. Make sure through the whole thing that you don't go too long without direct eye contact. Don't try to be an expert hand masseuse, just get some soft, physical contact going. End with the following:
Me: "Do you feel open?"
Her: "Yes" or just a smile
*Kiss Close*
OR
Me: "Did you know your pulse just sped up?"
Her: "Yes" or she'll blush/get embarrassed
*Kiss Close*
Works pretty well for me. You can use this on any body part that has a reputation in Tai Chi Philosophy, Kama Sutra, Accupuncture, Religion, etc. So Be Creative!!!
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