OBVIOUSLY there is a girl im interested in.. soo00ooo
A bit of back ground info.
We met a couple of times over the last year or so, as i was working security at a local night club, generally had a few convos here and there (i was not trying to game her as i was in a rship at the time, also she was engaged and had been for 4 years and been with this guy for 9 years total since she was 15) i believe she approached me, basically we gave each other shit, teasing etc. nothing sexual just friendly chit chat, she started calling me 90210 as it relates to my name.
So0oo i was out at the same club Christmas eve (not working) i THINK she followed me to the outside smokers area, as she walked out there behind me, could have just been she was going out 4 a smoke
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I said hi, we started chatting, joking as usual. she asked in a round about way if i still had a gf, which didnt. and told me she is single, she gestured for us to go and sit down, we mucked around for 2 hours just playing, kino, etc. she told me after her ex fiance she had another bf and had broken up with him, and now had been sorta seeing this 18 yr old guy for 5 weeks (she is 25 by the way, im 21), nothing serious just hanging. he was at the club that night also, (i never seen him, but i live in a small town and know of him) i loved how she would rather talk to me then even go and see him (they went out with the same people to this club). i put my number in her phone, she pranked me so i had hers.
great night. she was going to leave with me (not for sex) but because i was driving another girl home and her house was on the way, i could tell she wanted to come, but didnt want to ditch the 10 or so people she went out with. she was very close to walking out with me but didnt. anyway.
We exchanged txt msgs for that weekend and early the week next. just before new years. the night before i was to fly out interstate to spend new years with another girl, i msged and asked if she wanted to hang.
We went out for tea, played some pub games for a while, i was walking her to her car, when i said to her if she wanted to do somthing random (she had previously said she loved doing random things.) she followed me in my car to the local wetlands (pitch black out in the wild life, with a board walk)
I had taken another girl their b4 but she was to scared. this girl doesnt care and loves that sorta stuff.
Had an awesome time scaring eachother, laying on the board walk watching shooting stars, fairly cool shit. lots of hugging kino, pretending to push eachother in the water etc. we spent hours out there. we headed back to the cars, this is where i kissed closed. (which im supprised i did, as she has a very high moral standard, and has told me lots about, not sleeping with random guys all that sorta stuff. (one girl who i actually believe is this way lol)
She tells me about the 18yr she is sorta seeing, telling me he is attached and she told him not to be. she is focused on her dancing and wants to travel this yr (which is why her bf of 9 yrs and her split up as he was ready to settle)
She said she feels bad cos she is hanging with me and he told her he didnt want to see any1 else (which i know he has been, small world, funny small town
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but she told him she wanted to see me.
So i dont really know where i stand as yet. she was outta town for 3 weeks over the holidays as was i for a couple, the girl who i went to see for nye came back to my town and is not living here, (not for me) she is originally from my town. and wanted a rship with me, but im not interested and we still hung out n fucked. she told me she loved me blah blah blah, i made the point to tell her nothing else would happen, soo she knows the 18yr that the dancer had been seeing!!
she was texting him, this is how i found out it was the same guy. anyway a bit fucked up situation lol
me and the dancer jst exchange 1 or 2 txts a day over these few weeks she was away. giving eachother shit as always.
last night we went for a walk around local lakes, played on a park, and again sat in her car for a few hours just chatting. she is on a 'sex band' for 3 months (bet between her and her friends) she said i should do it two, she is nearly at the end of hers and may do another 3 months. (he has only had 2 sexual partners both the ex's i have mentioned) this is 1 of the reasons im so attracted to her!!
i said i would consider it, she joked and said i should start my 3 months a lil after she finished hers, implying for us to fuck.
Anyway we always have a sweet as time, i could see myself having feelings for her. i just dont understand it all, because she says she is focused for this yr and doesnt want to get involved with sum1. but she will see me and this other guy.
she still hangs with the other guy aswell, i know i have it over than him, cos im awesome
but who's not to say that she will sleep with him when her band is up. i know shes not playing games cos she told me also not to get attached (joking)
Dont know where to go from here!!!
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