hey guys jus got back from a night out. its about four in the mornin for me. but i ran into an issue today that i really never run into. I'm a twenty year old male with raging hormones haha yet this girl i used to go to high school with is all over me but i had a hard time gettin it up. Eventually, i did but by that time her friends were draggin her to another party. I kno my limits and i can drink at least twelve drinks in an hour before i even start to pass out. I'm just intersted in your guys feelings as to why it took me a sec. Me and this girl have almost had sex on two occasions, but i had a gf for one n the other her friends ruined it. N its not that she's a 10 sexxy model type (she is but its not the issue cuz i've laid models) i'm thinkin its an inner game issue. Can anyone guide me in some kind of direction?

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You need to look up erectile dysfunction and alcohol.

I thought that too... but i just had sex with her to prove that, that wasnt the issue. I think my issue was that i would psych myself out n since i've known her for so long i would revert back to my shy, very introverted manners and her attacking me would kinda just scare me so i would freeze and not know what to do.

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You talked about twelve drinks in your post. It wasn't clear whether you'd had 12 drinks at the time, but it is clear that you're an alcoholic. I will be less subtle so that you go do the homework on this. The brief scan of things I read, said that alcoholism is a complicating factor for erectile dysfunction. Along with other various medical conditions that can combine with it, or possibly develop from it. You need to make sure you're not suffering a physical problem. Medically, "I just had sex" proves nothing. It's not a medical diagnosis. Read more about ED and alcohol, seriously, then decide whether those descriptions fit you. I'm not talking about "oh, alcohol makes you lousy in bed," the common street wisdom. I'm talking about reading enough stuff to decide whether or not you have a medically recognizable disease. Reading up about alcoholism would also help you while you're at it. Twelve drinks??

I second the above, and if I were you I'd try not to dwell on what happened too much. It's quite probable that the more you worry about it the more you'll psych yourself out,

just chalk it up as experience and forget about it mate

depending on body size, experience, time and food intake different people handle alcohol differently. 12 drinks is not a big deal for some people, passing out after 12 isn't uncommon. I work as a bartender and am trained to read situations like this.

Sorry, but lets get back to the point.

I believe that everything is in your head, sex is such a mental thing that your state of mind can cause you not to have an erection. Anxiety, and past histories can be killers. The problem is I don't know nearly enough about you or the situation to dive deeper into this but I can tell you that it is probably the way you are thinking about her-or yourself that caused you to perform the way you did.