I need advice on how to game a paricular girl (dont worry I dont have oneitis and am not in love, its just a different set of circumstances, it might be interesting to discuss). Here is the story;

I knew her almost 3 years ago and had major oneitis so I failed miserably. I was 18 and very AFC. I gave up eventually and since then I travelled the world, did interesting stuff and there are a large number of interesing photos of me and 2,3 or 4 girls at a time one facebook now.

---Here is the catch---
We met through my mum! her mum and my mum are friends, futhermore her mum really likes me. Me and the HB, however, havent stayed in touch.

So now I got back 4 days ago after being away for over a year and she contacted me on facebook (there is a thread on what she wrote here - interesting-should-i-bother-responding- ... highlight=). My mum heard about this (I think I told her while drunk lol) and immeditely proceeded to invite the girl and her mum over to our house (where Im living for the moment).

I did reply to the girl and now she replied to tell me that "apparently we are having a get together" so I have to tell her about my travels. She also said that she will be leaving to study overseas in a month (in my opinion more then enough time to game her - although it does put in a time restraint of some sort).

She will visit within a couple of days so my question is how should I game her? Firstly should I keep the fb PM convo going before then? When they do come over I will have to go through 15-20 of boring, awkward conversation with my mum and her mum (I figure this is a good time to ignore the girl and focus on talking to her mum), should I ask her to come get coffee or something after we got through this (and how)? How do I peak her interest later so that I can make her ask for my number? and do I schedule a second meeting and if so where should I suggest and why?

Basically, whats my game plan?

Sounds like an easy catch. If she saw that facebook photo with you and 4 other girls doing whatever, then obviously it shows her that you have choice and that if she wants to catch you, then she better make a move quick.

And the conversations between you, her, your mum and her mum,.. jeez,.. that is boring. Definitely invite her out afterwards and then game her like you would any other girl. Show her the new improved PUA that you have become,.. :P cheers dude.

Don't forget a field report!!

thanks but I forgot one thing.

I dont know when she will visit but ill just sit back and wait. The thing is I have a cousin staying with me at home for the next couple of months. There will be pretty much no way that I can ask the girl to come to coffee or drinks without inviting him too (since he is in the house). I doubt he will get in the way too much, but the thing is there will be no opportunity for us to be alone cuz he will always be there as the third wheel.

Any good isolation ideas or other tips in general? Also, how to I peak her interest so that she actually comes back for a second meeting (a club or sth where isolation is more plausible) without kino or anything too sexual since those thing will be hard next to my cousin?

Ehm.. Is he your pubbet?

I think your cousin will do just fine with her mom in the house, or he can watch some television. Just talk to your cousin and say what u intend to do.

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yeah but how am I meant to ask to girl out alone without making it seem like im saying "hey lets go out. Its a date thats why we're leaving this guy at home"?

Remember that I already tryed with this girl before (although a very long time ago) so I dont think asking her out right off the bat would be effective. I need to show her first that I have changed and that I am now a lot more interesting/attractive.

I would invite her out casually, almost as if you don't care what whether you are friends or lovers. Her opinion of you will likely be that you're pretty high value based on what you've said. Keep her guessing. Flirt with her, make her smile, but keep her guessing as to what your true intentions are. This should at least get you a second day with her, and it's a case of ramping it up from there.

Quick update + more advice needed...

She came over, we went to coffee alone and then got a drink at a bar after. She said I changed A LOT in the few years she didnt see me, said i was WAY more confident and that that is a good thing. She also seemed interested in being around me, and laughed at a lot of my jokes, I negged her a few time throughout the night just for good measure, and generally cuz I like teasing girls and it seems to work. I got the following IOIs and here is my analysis of them;

- Touching me at random intervals or when she says something important (She did this whne I knew her before too and I think this is one that she fakes with every guy)
- Asking me if I have found a serious gf while travelling, in somewhat more subtle words (I dont know is this one just slipped out or if she was asking as part of casual conversation, she is usually quite reserved adn doesnt seem to me the type to ask a guy directly if he has a gf)
- Asking what im doing this weekend (again i dont know if it was casual, I said I had no plans as of yet but will prob find something)
- at the end telling me that I "should take my cousin out while he is still here" and that she knows a good concert on the weekend, she said she would send me the facebook link.

In the end I said I might call her on the weekend, and she seemed pretty eager to meet up again, although she seemed that way when I knew her before and never really wanted to meet me after I texted. I guess it just depends on how I ask.

So, when/how/where do I invite her? Any input is appreciated since I will prob do it anyway, it just depends whether that works or not.