Often times when I go with a group to a bar I feel like girls are looking at my friends rather than me. I know I am a decent looking guy but this is hurting my confidence. I am a hit or miss guy, when my confidence is up I do great but often times it is not the case. I know girls are very indirect often so are they looking and I just cannot see? Or how does that work, I am kind of a newbie in the bar scene. But this is something I need to get over because jealousy is a dumb emotion to have.

Thanks to anyone who can help me out, this has been bugging me a lot and it is much appreciated.

If all you want is girls to look at you, peacocking works. Dress to impress, wear something unusual... they'll look at you.

Is it your friends that are doing most of the talking? If you're just in the back doing nothing then yes, the girls won't really care about you.

If it's girls you don't already know tell your friends to introduce you and just start running game. Gotta be the talker if you want girls to notice you.

No im just talking about when we first walk into a bar for example. I feel like all the attention is away from me. Nobody is talking, just walking in and walking up to get a drink, for example. Or even during the day walking on the street. When people look our way and I look over, I feel like girl's eyes are never on me.

As i write this I know it seems really goofy haha but it still bothers me. Are girls just too indirect and maybe they do look at me but when I look over their eyes shift off to the side? Thanks for the comments so far

I know what you mean man I have a roommate who is a attention whore so he will always try to pull attention from me or anyone else for that matter so that girls will notice him. To counter act this I simply touch the girl whom attention I am after usually on the shoulder, elbow, or knee and then start a side conversation. If he is talking to my target I will wait till he has a brief pause then jump in to capture her attention. As far as girls not looking at you in general I have agree peacocking really works. So you might what to try a new hair style or get a shirt that says something funny on it. I would recommend trying to get a girl who is a friend to go shopping with you to find some new clothes. Should you not have any girl friends try a gay friend as they have a taste for style that girls love. Should you have no gay friends just go to the mall and find some girls. Introduce yourself and tell them that you need a girls opinion shopping I do this from time to time and it works rather well. Just remember that pick up and sales is really just a numbers game. Granted the better your pitch the less numbers you will need to play. Also you might want to upload a pic or link your facebook to see if anyone on here could give you a couple of pointers.

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Maybe it could have something to do with your body language. When you walk into the bar, are you the first person to walk in leading your friends to the bar or are you the follower at the back of the pack?

If you're at the back, you're friends will be looked at more as they are seen as the leader and alpha males of the group, and mainly they are the first things the girls see when they walk in. Try to walk into the bar first and lead them to the bar.

Whenever you enter a venue, have a smile on your face to show that you are comfortable in your environment and are a comfortable man.

Walk in with your chest and head held high, this will really make a difference in getting you noticed.