as i type this, I'm very hot and bothered. I havent spoken to my Oneitis in a week and I wanna ring her. Went out with the lads last night, sarged a bit, had a good time and didn't think about her once. Dreamt about her last night, now all I can think about is her...again!

brief history...

met her on a random night out, she came up to me, introduced herself and her mates then I walked away. Few months later, we were reunited as Fresher Reps at university. I was the head rep for the group she was in, I started to think "she's pretty cute" but nothing major.

Found out she had a thing for my American Football teammate, me and her became quite friendly because of this. He fucked her about, I had to pick up the pieces, then all of a sudden she kept tellin me she loves me in a nonchalant manner. of course i say it back cos it didn't mean anything. on her bday, i went out with her and her friends, she got drunk and tried to kiss me. I freaked out and pulled away, then went home. to this day it's never been brought up, I don't think she remembers it. Realise a few days later, that i like her and it grows and grows til it becomes love, almost an obsession. Did a few AFC things like buying her candy she loves from the US and bringing it home for her, walking her home after nights out etc

Did a stupid thing though, picked up a girl, who she knows and took her home. then when the girl had gone, i txt my oneitis with the nonchalant 2i love u"s from before. No response this time. Was blanked for a few days, cut off mid conversation etc. Came out and asked her if she was mad at me, she said no, she's just stressed, txt her back and asked her if she'd say anything if there was a problem and no reply.

and thats the last time i've heard from her.

funny thing is, i have no problem approaching a group of 6 HB10s, but seem to make a fool of myself with what to others would be an HB7.

Talking to my mum about something unrelated, she tells me to cut out the stuff in my life that makes me unhappy and embrace the stuff i love. Which made me think, this situation makes me unhappy, do i cut her out or try to win her?

ANY advice would be welcome!

"not soSlick_uk"

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Ah One-itis...we all have had one. I currently have one developing.

Many PUAs say that you just need to sarge and sleep with 7 - 10 other hot women and then see if this one girl is still so important. While this might be true for some girls (and most guys), I tend to disagree. We fall in and out of love. I got involved in the game so is that I could know what switches to flick in order to get girls to fall in love with me as well.

How do you get over this one-itis? The above suggestion is the only one that can truly be offered. Sarge and sleep with a bunch of other women, and if you still feel that this girl is something very special, you need to consider playing a different game, at least, for the time being.

Hope that helped a little bit.


- Memento

Well, you know she is mad. That's obvious. If you can see her in person, I'd do that, and "pin her down" so to speak and get her to spill what's wrong. See if it's you, which it probably is, or not.

Yes, a lot of us do develop that one-itis. Unfortunately I have one myself, but I still run game on other girls at the same time. In fact, MY one-itis is actually in a relationship with me now, wanting to be my g/f, and she actually is giving me another perspective of myself, as in some of my body language that isn't too good.

But, if you can't get her to actually spill, you're best bet is to move on. If you let her go and she comes back, you might have something there. MAYBE.

I let mine go last night, and she came running back.

cheers for the responses guys! my internet went down last night so couldnt read them til now.

did the stupid thing and rang her (she makes me so AFC), she didnt pick up, i got pissed off, sulked a bit.

she sent round a group txt to me and a couple others today, just general socialising bullshit, i replied responding to what she said, she replied apologising for how she's been acting with me recently (wasn't prompted). I replied a few hours later, a bit cockyfunny, not bothered if she replies or not, cos things are cool and im in the driving seat again now

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