I wrote a similar thread but the way I explained the theory got mixed up and the name of the thread was all wrong LOL

Now my theory has been in my mind for sometime, people have said that words doesnt matter and that actions speaks louder then words. I can focus on looking and listening at the same time very well through perception and this is what I have perceived. We all know body language is a sub communication, I have the same believe with every word you say though some words are said with the sub conscious mind without you realizing.

English in general is a complex language, you can say it in so many different ways for one sentence but what I dont understand is why?

so heres the theory
Lets say I ask a woman where she think is a good bar to go to 'here she will put her suggestions' Ill listen to which bar sounds really cool the Id say oh where is bar XXXXXXXX.....

Now here she can say it in so many ways but depending on how she say it will it determine what kind of personality she has?
Example:
HB: its 2 blocks DOWN then turn right.....
HB: its 2 blocks UP then turn right.....
HB: its 2 blocks OVER then turn right.....

ok now look at the caps here 'Down', 'Up'... does this determine wether your an optimist or a passimist?... 'Over' does this determine that you are over something? Is the sub conscious mind trying to tell us something?

Another example I hear;

You: I need to borrow this for a sec
You: I'm going to steal this for a sec
You: I need this for a sec
You: I need to use this for a sec

Sure sometimes we have control in what we say at times, there are those other times where we react rather then respond to the situation.

Any thoughts?

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

has nothing to do with the subconscience.

Disagree! we are not 100% consicous for every word and actions we do

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen

Doesn't sound very solid...sounds pretty much like interchangeable words. "Over" meaning "over something"? Bit of a stretch.

If you had 10 guys ask a girl for directions she'd probably interchange how she said it every time.

Second example might have a little more credibility but it's more of just how much value or how comfortable you are around someone. If you're around an old friend you'd probably just say "Gimme that" if you're messing around. If around a authority figure you'd say "Can I borrow this?". Not really subconcious.

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As far as you're concerned you'd better be the coolest motherf***er on this planet.