cleaning: it's good for the mind and body and you'll always be prepared to bring a woman over. it's very important to always be prepared. you should never have to preface someone coming into your home with "it's a little messy but..." i've had many woman comment on how impressed they are that I keep my bathroom clean.
exercise: makes you healthier and look better. even if it's just pushups and situps or messing around with a dumbbell or stretching out.
cooking: eating is one of the most important and fundamental things that we do at least 3 times a day. i enjoy learning how to cook healthy, tasty meals. cooking impresses women too
obligations: I try to get a jump on whatever obligation I have and no matter how far in the future. it's stressful to have things sitting on the shoulders. I always feel relaxed when everything that needs to be done is done. productivity is a good quality.
reading: whether it be my favorite type of book, something I need to read for class, for current events. reading makes me a smarter and more informed member of society.
self-defense: this doesn't have to be about kicking people's asses. in fact, if you take a good martial arts class, you will learn many ways to avoid confrontation without the use of fists. not only do martial arts classes train, strengthen and tone the body, but a lot of self-confidence comes in knowing that you are able to protect yourself and those you care about. that is the kind of self-confidence that shines through; women notice
dancing: it's true that women associate dancing with sex. plus, women think that dancing is sexy. third, women like to dance so you have something to do with women...something physical that involves touching. last, dancing is fun.