Hi there, first post so a short introduction. Im male, 26 from australia. I consider myself a good conversationalist and find it easy to approach girls and begin discussions but i lack in closing. Most of the time while out ill meet girls, get their numbers and the other half will lose attention and use the "im going to the bathroom" trick. Ive only been single for a few months and previously in a relationship for almost 4 years so its a learning process again.

Anyway where i live and pretty much everywhere else, status goes along way. And i am one extremely lucky guy but im only just getting to understand how to use my status to full effect and would like some tips. So basically my father owns a couple of nightclubs, this puts me way up on the social heirachy! I got all the benifits, free drinks, vip areas, free entry, can do what ever the fuck i want basically. But ive always been pretty subtle about it until recently not wanting to be the guy thats just bragging.

I remember just after my breakup i decided to get out alot, become very familiar with the family nightclubs and very comfortable being there, meet the people running the place, the bouncers, the waitresses, the glassy's, become a friendly face while still keeping abit of mystery about myself. One previous waitress told me they had a nickname for me, the "unicorn". Reason being was i was out only rarely and everyone would know my brother and sister but occasional the would see me and go "thats him! the other one, the unicorn!"

I built my ground. There was one night after talking to one of the waitresses for abit i decided to drop my name so she knew who i was. I then told her id like to get to know all the girls that work here, i gave her one of the bar coasters and told her to write down everyones name so i could add them to facebook and get to know them. At the end of the night i had about 15 names down on 2 coasters, i even had a couple of random girls write their names down because they were wondering what i was doing.

So these days i go out, i shake the hands of all the bouncers and chat for abit, say hi to the managers, so hi to the bar staff and go up to my vip booth in complete comfort knowing "this zone is mine, it is my hunting ground".

When it comes to meeting girls at the club thats were it falls apart abit. Ive found making it part of my introduction doesnt really work well, it gives up so much so soon. Approach a group of girls says hi im the owners son, how are you all? Most think its a joke and start asking questions but it doesnt go far.

I found something abit more effective the other night. There was a group a girls that somehow got up to vip booth i was in, i go over to introduce myself to one and step on her toe by accident, instantly shes like WTF!! and i back away. Go back to my drink and think ive blown it. Then one of my friends was talking to the girls and his dropping the fact his with me and im the owners son etc etc, next thing i know 3 girls of the group come up to me and are asking "does your dad own this place?" "can you get us free drinks?" and the girl that i stepped on was actually really into me by the end of the night. So this approach seemed really effective.

So im here asking how do i take this further? Ive got the ground work set to a point that at least one girl through the night will ask me "are you name?" and ive never even met them before. But how should i use this to be most effective?

Longterm: Just keep doing what you're already doing. Make sure that every single person working in this clubs knows you and treats you as a VIP. It will get attention without any question.

Shortterm: get a good wingman and have him try "pickup" girls with "I'm with the owners son". He'll probably get blown off at first but it will show your value. If you're talking with another girl (even if she's working in the club) while he talks about you it's probably a done deal. You just wait for them to aproach or if this doesn't work introduce yourself without bragging about who you are.

I'm really interested in answers from mPUAs here. It's an interesting example on how to use your existing high value.

Dude, you've hit a gold mine. There are a ton of ways to use this.

Build an entourage and go out with them to the clubs. Everyone in your group will know you're the alpha and it will be obvious to outsiders by looking at their behavior. It then becomes easy to pick up chicks.

Do some kind of semi-official job in the clubs, just making sure things are running smoothly. Girls will notice you walking around with authority and be happy to talk to you when you approach them.

Sorry havent been around much, too busy going out
Things have been on a real high lately, out every weekend, socializing, meeting new girls, girlfriends of other girls i havent even met adding me on fb saying they want to meet me. Its been pretty intense. I was actually in the newspaper today by default as my dad bought a new penthouse and we had our photos taken for it celebrating the occasion.

I think i need some more posts before being able to show any pics

Ok so from last week i think it was, im the guy in the middle.
As a disclaimer if anyone feels they know any of these people and want the photos taken down let me know. These phot are also my property and not to be used elsewhere.

Well, are you turning them into lays as is? If you are, then I'm not understanding why there's a problem.

If you aren't, then it sounds like you're running out of material. Seems to me that you can either: show her a good time, have something in common to talk about, have nothing in common to talk about i.e. small talk or routines, or get on with directly making her horny. You've already got social proof; you seem to be saying that although it gives you a starting advantage, it doesn't enable you to finish anything?

Yeah thats always been my problem, f-close. On the rare occasion i might and seems to be more so these days then before but earlier days never was the case.

Since i first posted which wasnt too long ago things have changed alot, i pretty much have social proof now and that area seems fine and working. And honestly the moment i stopped trying to pick up girls, the more girls seemed to be around me. I just need to work on f-close.

Found that sometimes direct confidence works best. I took a girl out for dinner that i had met out one night. I normally dont try to take girls home from the clubs unless theres a real chance too, i like to arrange to see them in a normal location such as beach or dinner or whatever im doing at the time. So i took her out for some sushi then back to her place to drop her off, i directly said to her without even thinking "you want to fuck?" she giggled abit and said not here i dont have any condoms, so i started the car and said we are going to my place then. It was that easy! But every girl will be different.

Originally yes this thread was about how to use my social proof, with the advice here i think ive got it now so thanks