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| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun Dec 12, 2010 7:40 pm Posts: 21 Location: Birmingham, UK | | THE JACKAL Mob: 0776 226 4828
I too was out with the Jackal on Friday 7th Jan for my first proper sarge. I am very new to this stuff and I wasn't properly prepared but still The Jackal had me approaching very quickly.
The first set I was ordered to open walked briskly past the window of the bar we met in. I ran out of the bar and chased them down the street racking my brains for one of the three openers I had just been given by the Jackal. My mind was blank. I caught up with the set in a dark alley while one of them adjusted their shoe. I stood next them, smiled and said hello. The pair looked at each other bemused, said hello sarcastically and continued on down the alley.
I laughed to myself at how badly it went. I broke many written rules of the approach but I was pleased with myself.
I continued from there winging others, listening to how they do it and tried a few more approaches myself. My opener delivery got better as the night went on but I then found it difficult to transition and hold attention.
The night was an eye-opener and very useful to me. I now know that my biggest sticking points are opening, transitioning and holding attention, basically summed up in one word, TALKING.
I suspect this is going to be one of the biggest hurdles for me in my PUA journey. I have always been an introverted character and talking has never been my strong point. This is what I need to work on most.
In short the Jackal will get you approaching and challenging yourself VERY quickly.
Just like the Jackal said, “Do you want this to take 6 months or 6 years?!”.
THE JACKAL Mob: 0776 226 4828
It's time to get out there!
Hope to meet you for a sarge soon. _________________ "It is easier to get her forgiveness than to get her permission." - Julien, RSD
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