Shyness with girls



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 9 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Inner Game » Social Shyness & Anxiety

Unanswered topics | Active topics | New posts | Your posts





  Print view Previous topic | Next topic 
Author Message
Hardliquor001
 Post subject: Shyness with girls
PostPosted: Sat Jan 08, 2011 2:29 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Tue Nov 09, 2010 8:40 pm
Posts: 87
Hey guys, I've came to this part of the forum to ask you guys how to overcome the shyness that surrounds me when i try talking to girls?? With friends, random dudes, store clerks, girl[friends] I dont have ANY problem talking to them. But when it comes to this one chick I wanna game, my mind totally freezes out and i don't have a damn clue about what to say and worry a lot about what to say next. Is there anything I can do to overcome that?
Top
   
Reply with quote  
DängDängDigelow
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 2:57 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Jan 06, 2011 8:51 am
Posts: 3
The single best tip i got about this topic (although this topic is ultimately 100000000000 times wider than that) was

-
If you get nervous when talking to women, than this is because of the simple fact that you weight her opinion more then your own.
-

And yes most problems that men have concerning their self confidence, can be explained with this explanation... At least thats what ive learned from my own experiences :)
Top
   
Reply with quote  
gallardo9
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:34 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:40 am
Posts: 15
dude...i used to have this exact same problem. I started to consciously ask myself a question if I had AA:

"Do I really care what the hell she thinks!! I don't even know her!" - i'd psych myself up till i went and approached her

obviously, i care what she thinks if I start to like her and she's responding back but if you prepare for a shutdown and go in with indifference, it's much easier
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Alpha_Man
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 9:28 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Thu Dec 17, 2009 10:21 am
Posts: 56
Being shy can be a hard thing to overcome, but don't give up.
I suggest trying to flirt with a girl, just for the fun of doing it.
Feel the energy, tease her, make fun of her, play hard to get, turn her own words against her.

For example if she sais something like "I don't think you know how to make sex/kiss me" you say "do you want to find out or why are you asking?"
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Chelios
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:14 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:34 pm
Posts: 1541
Location: London, UK
You want to make it, and be good with women? Cours eyou do.

How will you do this? Think, fuck it, I don't know her, she don't know me, I have nothing to lose. I'll rather try and fail than think "what if I approached her?".

Kill the AA by pushing yourself, and thinking, what have you got to lose?

_________________
Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!

: Blog entries@ http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/
Top
   
Reply with quote  
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  Page 1 of 1
  [ 5 posts ] 

Board index » Inner Game » Social Shyness & Anxiety

All times are UTC

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link