Hey guys,

My girlfriend needs inner game!! And I would really appreciated some advice for you guys.

She is going through a very hard time in her life right now. She confided in me yesterday after being together for 6 months, she shared her deepest feelings of inadequacy, low self confidence and even self hate when she looks in the mirror at what she sees (She stated regarding the way she looks) after hearing this I was well and truly gob-smacked. The ironic thing is I would never of guessed because she is so energetic, bubbly and confident and a generally upbeat character to be around. I was confused at first and told her she has no need to feel these things. I suppose that everyone has secrets....

As of right now her aim is too loose 2 stone before we go Egypt together in two months, but I feel the problem runs deeper than physical appearance. she is 20 years old as am I, and in no way is she in need of any weight loss!! She has had problems when she was younger she has shared with me of people treating her badly. This has given her a history of low self esteem although she has always been strong and not told confided in anyone untill now.

Anyway that is just a little background if your still reading youve made it to the end!!:D I was wondering if anyone might be able to recommend good reading material for me to get her? advice I can give her? actions I can take?

Ultimately I know its down to her to, but everyone needs a supportive hand on the back sometimes.

Thanks you all for reading.
much love.
LetLoose.

BeAllYouCanBe.

Try

Get the Life You Want
by Richard Bandler

Short, easy to read, lots of good advice for various inner game, confidence, thinking pattern problems.

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"I'd tell her to go shove her face in the pig pen, and go out and find another one who'll kiss you without askin for the earth. You're bound to find one. You can hardly throw half a brick back in the lands you come from without hittin one."
Stardust

Physco-cybernetics by Maxwell is really good for you and her.. self image and limiting ideas. Its audio version to i think.

cheers for your replies, they are much appreciated.
Ill look into both books.

LetLoose