I been having problems keeping convos going after i approach, I know it's best to make a routine so you dont have to think so much if you've memorised it, but how do you make a routine? So far the only help i've gotten from anything is to make a topic and make it branch off to another topic and what not, but i struggle to keep it going without having to think for ages. Sure i can compliment them on something they're wearing, then ask them where they got it or how much it is, but that can just go on and lead nowhere. Could someone help me not only with keeping convos/making some good routines but also how to help it go in the direction i want?

Ok first off, are you talking routine as in overall course of the sarge or a specific routine? For instance, do you have a SPECIFIC opener and a few SPECIFIC DHV stories that you want to run in a sarge? Or just a single routine (DHV, comfort, etc)?

I think you are talking of the overall sarge so if that's correct heres a little advice that might help.

Associations!

If you have stories, games whatever that you want to use in your repertoire then you naturally need to be able to flow everything together in at least a decently logical order right?

Ok here's a little exercise then for becoming aware of associations to flow your routines in sarges. Pick the ones you want and write them down, each on separate pieces of paper. For each routine, think of as many associations as possible from which one topic might lead to or from the presentation of that specific routine. K that might sound confusing but here's an example.


Lets say we'll use the finger length routine (if you don't know it i think you can find it on youtube) So what topics of conversation could possibly read to this routine without simply just starting it from no where?

use small phrases here:
manicures, thumbs up, giving the middle finger, making the loser sign, sign language, and on and on and on.

There are sooo many associations to be found in the world. When you start to think of how the things you really wanna say are associated to other things in the world you can more easily direct the flow of conversation towards those things.

Do this with any routines you really want to employ! The trick is picking up the associations in the field and linking it with your routine. So as soon as you (using classic MM) ask her if her nails are fake, you've set yourself up to launch right into Finger Length more naturally smoothly and confidently.

Hopes this helps!

A Routine isn't necessary per se, If you opened up, remember to be casual(not nervous) ,small talk about a subject (music,movies) , ask her opinion , Neg the opinion(make a joke about her favorite band or something)But don't push it!(to much joking around gets you nowhere) , tell her something about yourself(personal) than switch on to her,let her tell something about her family (self),if she switches on to you she shows interest.. if not let her do the talking(join in occasionally) Remember keep it Natural

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