Hey,

I am 19 and still in love with my first love who we have now been broken up for 6 months. I would love more than anything to have her back, I think about her more than 4 times a day and its tough.

I tried to win her back, it pushed her away, far away apparently. Apparently I made a fool of myself, I even saw her hooking up with this guy downtown, she looked at me, and continued to do it. Never the less it doenst change how much i want her and such.

I asked if she wanted to meet up, and she said yes but if we talk about the past or anything like that she will leave. In my mind I had it planned like i talk to her, be a gentleman, show her why i am the man for her.
Until someone told me yesterday, dont even reply to her, dont even talk to her, block her off facebook, send her a message saying why you're doing it and live your life...

What do you suggest... also he said if I meet up with her Im an idiot...

I think for an outsider, it's hard to judge this situation...

She is ur ex-gf, clearly, by meeting up, you want to achieve her feeling attraction to you again...

She once had this, she probably lost it, it's hard to get it back, is your game good enough to get her feeling attraction again -> meet up!

Are you going to struggle, and feel like ur game is not going to cut it with her -> don't meet up and show her you moved on....

That's my humble advice, hope it helped!