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A guy can be emotional attached too.
Well of course he can! But men don't need to love, like, or even know a woman to have sex with her. I think a man can be in love with his girlfriend/wife yet still be unfaithful to her, and think nothing of it.
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If in a relationship, I for one, am not going to cheat.
Well great! And you probably won't even feel the urge to,
if the relationship is new and exciting, and you're getting laid every day. But the fact is once your chosen lady starts getting "headaches", you'll be left with an erection and a million fantasies in your head. After a day of no sex, you start craving, right? That's because you've entered an "unloaded" stage, and what's more- women will
actually start looking more appealing to you.
I mean lets look at the male anatomy for starters:
1. Erection = penis must fill up with blood.
2. Where does the blood come from? Law of gravity- it comes from the brain.
3. Less blood in the brain = reduces your capacity to think, power of conscience, faculties of discrimination.. etc!
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Purely look at the fact, a girl most of the time gets tons of offers to go have sex. She can have more guys than the guy could. Statisticly speaking: The girl being the most desirable + influenced by other factors, she'll faster make a run for it than the guy.
Who frankly said is more insecure about himself, thusfor not having to risk anything that he already got.
A woman is walking down the street. An extremely attractive man in a very expensive Armani suit stops her, and says "I want to perform oral sex on you, bring you to a fantastic orgasm, and then never see you again."
99% of women will either (i) slap him, (ii) scream, (iii) run away, and then attend extensive therapy sessions and probably never fully recover.
A man is walking down the street, thinking about his wife. An extremely attractive HB10 wearing a leather mini skirt stops him and says "I want to perform oral sex on you, bring you to a fantastic orgasm, and then never see you again."
99% of men will run with her to the nearest alley. (The other 1% refuse- they think they're on Candid Camera).
It all comes down to basic biology: Women
are programed to be more selective then men- it's called natural selection in mating. A woman can only reproduce once every 9 months, whereas a man can impregnate hundreds of women in the same time frame. Barabing- baraboom! Sure we are now more advanced, have numerous forms of contraceptives etc. but a female mind still harbors the same instinct; this very forum is a perfect example of it- it's
you men that have to pick
us up, and distinguish yourselves from 1000 others.
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My last girlfriend went cheating on me
This is the reason I agree with the double standard. I don't think it's natural for a woman to need to be with more than one man at a time- but women do it anyway because hey, it's only fair! The thing is
it's a man's basic nature to crave sexual variety, not a woman's.
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To be honest, I think you're givin us a lot of miscredit here.
I'm really not saying any of this with spite... I think men are capable of great love and compassion, of honesty, heroism, etc. but I just don't think they are capable or fidelity, because it's just not in their nature... and that's okay!
Unfortunately for you guys, society has raised women to believe that cheating is unacceptable- even I will cannot stand to be with a man if I find out he's unfaithful. Why? Because I've been fed to many Disney movies, taught to not tolerate it, and
my pride just won't let me.
At the end of the day, what she doesn't know won't hurt her. No woman wants to know her man is cheating- she thinks she does, but she doesn't. I'm not even gonna try to look for a man that will never cheat- because I know I won't find one. I just want a man that's smart enough not to get caught
-Roz
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