Hey guys, i need some advice with this girl... here's what happened.

I met this girl in college some months ago, and we started texting but then she found out that i had a gf so she went off i could say.... so like 3 months ago i ended up with my ex, and i managed so this girl knew it indirectly, so i started talking again with her and ended up setting to go to the movies, (i know WORST 1st DATE EVER) really, i picked her up and before the movies i went to where i used to play paintball and i could say im a little famous there, so i took her to my enviroment.. then we went to the movies and i was dissapointed, she is more boring that i tought xD... so i quickly went from wanting to kiss her, to hope that the night ended soon so i could leave her at her place lol... so i enjoyed my movie, with no intention of k close just having a good time... so i dropped her at hers place, n never called, so the next day she text me asking if i was alive lol, so we talked a little but i said to her in a cocky funny way that she was way to boring and peacefull to hang out with me, lol and she kept denying it and saying that it was a movie, that i had to see her in a night club to see the differenc...

so i said her that i believe in 2nd chances and that mayb we could go out again, just to see if theres any difference, so we setted up to dinner and then a night club, so i picked her up but went with her to my place cuz i remembered that she said that she liked to play rockband so i said to her that i forgotten something at my place, so we came and played a while... she was a lil exited :p, then we got to dinner and then we went to the night club, here i admit that i was the FAGGOT, we were having a good time with close dancing but i didnt go for the kiss, i was waiting an eyelock while dancing but didnt happen, maybe a lil but i didnt had the guts to go for it, so then her dad started calling cuz it was a lil bit late, so i had to take her home and on the way to her place she was peeing so bad that i had to go even more fast, so when we said goodbye really didnt had the time to go for it... so there was my 2nd date :S.... now im into her cuz i know that its my fault... that was on last thursday, after that, we kept talking, she was inviting me to a party for the 31 but i couldnt make it, and today she was telling me to go to her place to play rockband but i didnt have the time either.... what u guys think its my possition here... next date :S, i know i have to go for the kiss... i dont know how to k close with her its the prob, she is a lil shy

sorry for the spelling

where are you from? you're shy too, no reason to!

next time when you see her, you put your hand around her neck and give a kiss, like you normally do. When you are with her, touch her a lot, in a smooth way... when you are alone and she looks at you for longer than normal i blink (the ioi), go for a kiss!

Yeah, im going a lil shy with this one, don't know why... yeah i have to work a lil more on kino, but i think that i can't wait just for eye lock to kiss her, maybe i have to set the mood... or maybe just use a k-close routine... don't know

tips???

baby steps my friend. if you take her out again just let something happen, its obvious shes into you. here's what you gotta do:

without waiting until the end of the night (which is not usually the best time to snag a kiss believe it or not) try to create opportunities where you guys are close to each other, sitting or standing. when you start getting into deep conversation take her hand and start playing with it sensually.. i like to open and close my hand in her palm so that my fingertips run the lengths of her fingers, she'll dig it. Then without warning stop doing it for a minute. After a few minutes kick it up a notch, maybe put your hand on the inside of her knee. If you make eye contact with her and she holds it then I would go for the kill. It's even better if you tilt her chin up so that shes looking right into your eyes, she'll find this very romantic. All you gotta do is lean in and close your eyes.

When I have a million little routines and b.s. running through my head I have to stop and say "just play it cool." Do the same, it's not like you're trying to crack a safe, you're just working up some courage to pull the trigger.

Hope this helps mi amigo.

Definitely your turn to invite her out, definitely. She invited you out twice and you turned it down. If you don't initiate the next one she's going to think you were playing her or just not interested, or a coward.