Alright gang. Ive found a great girl who I want to make my own. We've made out and such after hanging out three times. No sex yet, but thats only cause of privacy issues.

I asked this girl out last night and instead of saying yes or no she said shes going to make me wait for my answer because she want to make me aggravated (she finds it humorous for some reason.) She also said I have to do something spontaneous for her to get her to talk.

FFFFFuuck that. This girl is shit testing me like no other. Heres how a recent conversation went between us over text.

Me: So what mall are you at?
Her: (mall)
Me: Who did you drag with you?
Her: My love
Me: Im not there, sorry
Her: And your my love? Funny.
Me: If im not then who is?
Her: Someone who is not you
Me: Cold as ice
Her: Ha
Me: Go shop. Ill talk to you later.


I feel shes defiantly interested in me, but is playing real hard to get. And its starting to kill me. Help me out.

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That girl has tight game. I'm glad I'm old. She might like aggravating you if you're not good at showing your emotions. She might like doing it because it's easy and you're too sensitive. I can't NOT pick on people that get riled easily. Is it possible she likes to try to make you jealous just to pry some emotion out of you? If that's the case, you might actually consider giving her a little surprise.

I don't know the backstory or whatever, but what I'd do is call her and tell her I have something for her, she doesn't have to get it today, but she'll be sad if she waits. If she meets up with you immediately, give her flowers. If she puts you off, give her dead flowers. Kind of demonstrates that it's rewarding not to keep you waiting. I'd expect she'll really open up at your romantic display, too. This isn't something most girls expect these days, so it's super effective.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Dont answer her questions and fall into her line of conversation thru text.
Dont ask her what mall she is at or what she is doing, far too much interest, let her do her things and you do yours, and definately make sure you dont do something if she asks you to try and get her approval, that is very afc.
I think it was good that you text and lead in the end by telling to go and ull text her later.
Id say leave it at least a week, then tell her your doing something and say she can tag along if she wants. or say your somewhere and tell her to come meet you coz this is so cool blah blah.

Hey man,

Just a little advice, I'm not an expert but here it is anyways.

Like the dude above me said, asking her which mall she's at is a bad start.

What you should be doing is texting her something that would make her want to think about YOU, or the fun times you had together, or something even completely random out of nowhere is better than directly showing her interest like that. If you ask her a question like that, you are simply giving her control of the conversation and possibly the whole relationship, depending on the circumstances.

The point is you should text her something INTERESTING that will catch her off guard. If she's over an HB8 you can even text neg her. This is just an example off the top of my head: "Hey 'Girl', I just ate some leftover fish and the smell made me think of your perfume lol"

hahahahaahaaha that's a funny one you got any more random jokes?

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That's exactly what a bad neg looks like. Will probably get you a response though...

One thing I was fucking up with text game was texting while I was bored at work. Don't fucking do that! In fact, don't text without a reason, don't text because you're bored, don't text and make it look like you have nothing better to do. It occurs to me why the OP failed is because it looks like all he wanted to do was shoot the shit and stalk the girl a little. There was no plan, no reason for texting her except to have a little girl talk. And at the end, it even looks like he had a little hissy fit. Pretty bad.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Danger alert!
Take preventative measures. Don't get too caught up on any one girl.

What he said FTW

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Its a joke, chill...

Thanks for the responses guys.
Two days later I ended up getting this girl. Now I have different problems to work out with her lol. It just never stops.

No worries, open relationships all the way for me.
As for getting attached, she has to earn that.

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