Hey guys, new to the forum so I hope this is the right place to post this.

After a solid week of approaching a load of sets in clubs, and even occasionally in day game, I've pretty much gotten over my approach anxiety. However, after opening, my mind goes blank, and I have no material to stack with, so rarely end up in a real conversation

Any help?

Thanks

I remember having this problem. And I tell you this is something that only you can solve. We can't really give you much help about this. It's like opening. You practice it, and you'll eventually experience that basicly you can talk about ANYTHING within or sometimes even out of ratio. Or you can go the MM way and stack up loads of routines but I don't really recommend it because 1) it may be incongurent with you 2) you may run out of routines too. Altough it's not a bad thing to have one or two in your pocket to get the conversation started. I mean, you throw in a routine and there's just no way she can't relate to it in some way and then you can relate to that and there you go you're having a conversation. Remember to change topics often. It can be really boring talking about the same thing for hours altough it is possible. Now. Happy sarging!

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ya, dnt rely on routines, but always keep one in the pocket to start a convo..just take the convo anywhere friendly after u open...comment something she's wearin and talk about it...or if she's really hot, give her a playful neg...ive noticed dat my mind goes blank when i start worryin about what to say next..but if u let the convo just flow freely,u get a better result..oh ya, when u run out of topics, time constraint and close

Thanks guys, much appreciate the feedback =]

Yea, i used to have the same problem, the mystery method did help me, but I used to create stuff relating to me, so for an opener I use my own opinion opener, like "Do you prefer men to be bald or have long hair" and lead it into what I was thinking of doing to mine and then lead into 5 lies, into some rapport building, then incredible connection, then Mystery's kiss gambit, number close, more rapport building etc

Trust us, it gets easier the more you practise, I wouldn't go for just learning routine after routine, but have a few in reserve just in case you freeze up.

Good Luck.

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