You'll never get this one as girlfriend if you don't have sex.

If anything you'll be her cuddle bitch.

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

If you want her for more than sex, and as a girlfriend, you'll have to have sex with her, go all about and risk things, giving her a great time, so she wants more.

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I know all about that, but there's no way in hell I'd feel good being in a relationship when I had sex with the girl while she was still engaged with another man.

She just left my house, we basically made out for 2 hours and yes I wanted to have sex and rip her clothes off. I know she wanted it aswell even if she said she didn't want to turn me on and didn't want to have sex and wanted to wait at least 2 months before anything happens. I litterally had to kick her out and she said her heart was hurting already or some shit to that effect.

Still I could tell she was dying for it..But it will only happen if she drops her boyfriend, and I don't care if I lose her because of that. It's just not gonna work any other way for me.

If that's the case, let her know this again, straight up. If not, you are wasting time and it is time to walk.

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Yes, I did tell her that, she went cold for like 5 minutes then everything went back to normal and we continued the making out.

She called me today she wants to hang out tommorow, she said we can't be doing that again (the intense 3hours makeout session), even if she enjoyed it, because it was ''too much''.. I guess she just felt bad about it.

Damn!! What a story!? Never read something like this....

recaputalise
Your goal with this girl: You want her to be LTR

question #1 -> Will you trust her when that happens? (according how she treats her bf now)

Remember: to get what you want in life you need to take risks (as in bussiness, you need to risk losing something in order to get something)

so in my opinion your only chance is to be straight with her (like many others here said so already)

She knows you, she knows the situation, you spend loads of time with her together, it's not about husband material, cuase then you're looking 25 yrs in the future, that's freaky in my opinion... (doesn't matter, personal side note)

just pick her up, say you need to talk, and SORT YOUR SHIT OUT! (you are the man, you have to step up) Currently, she's playing games with you and you're letting it happen (like many others here said so too!!)

give her an ultimatum ->
choice #1 Drop her boyfriend and start something with you
choice #2 Drop you and go along with her boyfriend (-> this is the point where you risk losing it!)

That's a risk you will have to take, else you are postponing it, but eventually after maybe lot of pain and akward situations it will come down to this, she will have to chose, it's just a matter of time, and you are postponing is cuase you FEAR IT!

All this time you wasted, you could have fucked 3 other girls, remember that! She's playing with you!

I hope my opinion helped you a bit,
Cheers P1nkstar

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I did something very dumb and very wrong, but I had to do it.

I noticed a while ago while she was showing something on her phone on facebook and she had like 250 inbox messages, I pointed that out and she said it was useless junk.

Now like you read things were getting a bit more heavy, and I wanted to clear my mind.

I downloaded a simple keylogger, and when she came home and logged to her facebook I retrieved her pw.

Now I know this is privacy invasion and very very wrong, but like I said I needed to do that to clear my mind.

I saw a message from a random guy, from november going along the lines of :


Her :

when are you coming back to canada you feel sooo far away

Him :

awwwww. you make me smile. lots. i miss you so much. you should have kissed me the last time i was in mtl. just sayin.

ps. im gonna be home on dec 11th. then we can talk and be cute like crazy

Her :

Ahh look at you being all forward :p I could say the same thing about you. Maybe if you were not so drunk the last night.

I'm counting down the days might even make a calendar

Him :

awwww. wellllll next time, youre mine. make that calendar sweetheart cause im coming to get you ;P

miss you babe.

Her :

ahhh your messages make my hear bloom




And so forth..


GAME OVER

PS : I know this looks very psycho and creepy, but now that I know that I can move on..

I'm not going to stick around that girl, and that's all I needed.

Should've listened to you guys.

lol good stuff man, good stuff
im glad ur done with that manipulating whore of a woman

You wouldn't need all that. Her behavior tells everything.

But well done. Now move on.

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

Did you told her you read her stuff?

Now you can see what we all assumed, and even what you thought in the back of your mind.

She's a dirty ass player, and someone needs to play her, but don't do this yourself.

All the ingredients have been given, shown and tested to let you know that, she is not what you want or need.

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Of course not.