Hey pimps,
not sure if this is the right section to post.. so Mods feel free to shift.

Scenario:
Ex-missus of mine, a HB-9, strols back into my life (i was only with her briefly for about 2 months, 2 years ago), asks me out to catch up, we locked in a day, then when the day came she stood me up.
It wasn't a FULL ON date that we planned, but we said 'we'll do coffees on thursday'.

Anyways, she comes back now again, its Saturday today, and asks me again "When are we catchin up'.

The question is:
Do I blitz her and not reply or do i give it another chance but possibly get stood up again?

What is a better choice. I had clear in my mind, to close the book on this hoes if they F me around once. She F'd me around once - so i thought close it.

Tho, she is an HB-9... so guys.. suggestions. please.

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It's a deja vu...

Don't reply to her right away. Give it a day or so, and then say you were busy and coudln't reply sooner, but don't say sorry. If you jump all over her again it's more likely than not you'll get slammed again

The ego doesn't want to be "stood-up" again. What I suggest you do is arrange a day with her, and arrange something else with someone else on the exact day?

When shit rolls around, you'll be do whatever with someone and if she calls to see where your are at, she just tell nicely that you got caught up with something else and that you'll meet her shortly.
If she doesn't call, well it doesn't matter, you had something else planned anyways.

This does two things. IT puts you in complete control of the situation, and it makes her totally secondary.
You want to convey this because it will show her you HAVE BALLS, and you don't wait around for a bi**h to tell what to do.

Great advice Samex!

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Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

Samex and Sling - you guys put that down reall good.
love that advise.
So i msg'd her a day later - i just said 'hey was out last nite, didnt have phone on me' anyways.. watcha up to?' - totally avoided answering her 'when are we catchin up question'.

Im gonna let her initiate once more, play the cat and mice game, and then ill double-book myself.

sweet as.

thankx fellas.

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It's a deja vu...