k heres the deal. i met this chick at school cuz we were workin on a class project and we decided 2 work on it 2gether 2 get it done faster... as we did i could def. tell that she was comin on 2 me cuz she was always movin in real close 2 me and wat not.. at the end... her bf/guy friend came buy when i had 2 leave so i didnt go for her number cuz i wasn't sure if that was her bf or not... im about 70% sure that it wasn't cuz they just didnt act like it... we did exchange email addresses while we were workin on the project 2 exchange class work so i did send her an email and she flirted back 2 me in an email...

how the hell do i close with somebody through email.. and im still not sure if that was her bf or not...

If you can, would you mind posting the emails you two exchanged?

Also, is she in physical/visual proximity to you, like during class and
what not?

If you see her in person every day, it might not be best to game her
via email... it might come off as you hiding behind email or dare I
say "stalkerish". Not saying you are with what you've sent so far, but...

You can never be too sure.
She might just be serious
about her school work, or
she might just be flirting with
you so that you can get most
of the work done without her.

Regardless, you need to number
close and isolate the target (which
shouldn't be too hard since you need
to work on a project with her).

Here, you need to pass A1, A2 and A3.

The second meeting should have
nothing to do with the project and
should be all about comfort building.

Call her up and just say

"Hey, meet me at starbucks and we'll
get some coffee."

Or something along those lines.

good luck.