To make it clearer, Is it possible to go into attraction & comfort building phase with a girl and avoiding the LJBF zone whilst having a girlfriend? (Assume the girl knows you do)

Don't ask me why I'm more interested in the yes or no and the constructive thoughts that come with. Thank you.

possible and often easier

yes it can be done. treat it the way you would treat the situation if she had a bf. basicly ignore the subject. if its not important to you, its not important to her.

I just want to state here, from an Inner Game perspective. Congruence and promise are of primary concern here. Make sure you are congruent in what you want in the social dynamic. If you have many girlfriends, you can definitely pawn them during a situation, if they don't know each other yet, it is a perfect time to get them to meet. It's about having fun, if there is no attachment, then that's better. It really depends on what you are looking for, in a long-term monogomous relationship, don't go meeting other girls alone as it's destructive to the continuation of that relationship. Men of high value always respect themselves and others, which is why they are high value, as people respect them. You get what you give. In which case, if you have a strong level of congruence then you shouldn't have any trouble.

The fact that you are asking this question implies that you are unsure about your intentions. Clarify your intentions then move on. Also, remember, the more people coming and going in your life, the more they taint/affect your perception. Be sure to not to pollute your life with people that you don't see as success models.

Also, be sure never to have a partner as a cruch. How can I clarify and give meaning to this. Basically, if you have doubts about the relationship, before it's too late, just open up the relationship to other possibilities, swinging, partner sharing, the sooner the better. You are going to have to deal with jealousy, which is primarily an inner game concept. Once you have this down pat, you won't have much trouble, especially if you intend to become a teacher of the sensual pleasures.

There are many young adult women that have yet to learn how to please a man and there are many young adult men who have yet to learn how to please a woman. So learn the secrets yourself, then pass them on to your friends. Sexual Secrets are an amazing tool, part tease, part please. Be sure to use these powers with good and generous intent.

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